Garter belts… sexy, horrid things!

Okay ladies, I have an issue I want to discuss with you: garter belts! We all…

Pride & Shame

Last week Emily of I Like Chocolate, He Likes Vanilla posted a fantasy called The Punishment. This…

Sex education – then & now

I received an e-mail from EdenFantasys in which I was informed of their theme for September: Sex…

Master vs Sir

Back in the days when we started our D/s relationship, I had no specific way of…

Anticipated horniness

I re-read my post ‘Horny Anticipation‘ and realized that it might have left some people with…

Losing control

Following my post Mindset, there was another blog post that totally struck a chord with me…

Mindset

I am following quite a lot of erotic blogs and of some of them (unfortunately not…

A need… revisited

Touch me, hurt me, Love me, spank me, Kiss me, gag me, Lick me, fuck me,…

What do you need that you are not currently getting?

Sometimes I need to focus… Sometimes I feel lost in myself… Sometimes questions are needed… To…

Vanilla thoughts

Some time ago I had an interesting conversation with an acquaintance that is very vanilla. Not…

Thoughts & feelings

As all of you know, we are sort of taking a ‘time-out’ from our active D/s…

Twitter Thoughts

On Monday and Tuesday this week some things happened on twitter that made me re-think my…