I wish the title could have referred to a mindfuck, but it doesn’t. Then again, maybe it does. An accidental mindfuck. But not in the good way. It happened the night before the post ‘Connection, No Sex‘ went live. Before Master T and I went to bed, he said something that made me think sex ... continue reading
Gratitude
Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow. ~ Melody Beattie As I write this, I am looking back on a ‘weird’ experience. I have that in inverted commas, because it’s not the right word, or rather, I have not found the word to describe it yet. ... continue reading
Connection, No Sex
Some time ago I had a conversation with Molly, and suddenly something struck me: I am content with our situation as it is now. Sometimes only a few words can make me realize things I haven’t seen clearly before. Let me explain… I have never been a person to connect the dots, especially not when ... continue reading
“I’ll get started tomorrow…”
“I’ll get started tomorrow…” What behavior or activity do you keep pushing off until tomorrow? What reasons do you use to delay the change. What if you were ordered-directed by your dominant to make the change. Would you still find valid reasons to delay it? Source Oh how many times have I told myself in ... continue reading
Blogging History
I have written stories for as long as I can remember. Sometimes they were assignments for school, sometimes they were only for me, and mostly there was something erotic in them. Not in the school assignments of course. There were times where I didn’t write, but back in 2010 I wanted a platform where I ... continue reading
Ruling The World
Rules, they are everywhere. There isn’t an aspect of our lives that isn’t governed by them. Every way we turn, everywhere we go, there is someone telling us what we can and cannot do and how we are expected to behave, and what the consequences of failing to keep to those rules may be. As ... continue reading
Sexy Sounds
Whenever I look at porn and the ladies (or gents) are very vocal, I tend to get distracted so much that the porn clip loses its ‘magic’. Therefore I frequently watch porn without any sound, as it’s what’s happening on the screen that interest me. I don’t need to hear them. I, however, am not ... continue reading
La Vie Est Belle
This is not a sexy post. Just a snippet from my day yesterday, something I wanted to share, and it made me think of La Vie Est Belle… Life Is Beautiful. I’m in our shopping center, just walking between the shops, wondering where I would go next. What else do I want to buy? Walking ... continue reading
Love Is Not Always Easy
Love is not always about rainbows and roses. It’s hard work. Always hard work. Even if it doesn’t feel like hard work, it still is. When you love someone, and you make a commitment to them, you cannot just sit back and think: okay, we love each other and all will be good forever. In ... continue reading
Educating Youngsters
Back when I grew up, in the conservative South Africa, we never had any sex education in school. I know, right, shocking! In Biology we learned that the sperm fertilizes the egg to form an embryo. Yes, we knew that sperm came from men and eggs from women, but how to get the two together… ... continue reading
Love Changes Everything
So this week’s Food for Thought question is all about changing your perceptions about sexual things. Sometimes you think you will never try or do something, and then something happens and you discover that you actually like it. But it can also work the other way around. One thing I have thought I would never ... continue reading
Voices In My Head
Some of you might have seen my meltdown post in the past weekend. It all happened when the voices in my head started telling me that I am not good enough, that the fact that Master T’s libido is still non-existent, despite not taking the antidepressants anymore, is all about me. I am not sexy ... continue reading