I wasn’t going to write for the subject of shame, until this afternoon happened. I know…
Tag: Thoughts
Planner and overthinker
I am a planner. I’ve always been and probably always will be a planner. It’s both…
Life happens, love binds
People say to me: “I don’t know how you manage with all that’s happening in your…
April showers bring May flowers
I love this expression: April showers bring May flowers. With all going on in my life,…
Style is eternal
Fashions fade, style is eternal. ~ Yves Saint Laurent I have written about style before, and…
Strength, life reminds me
Life keeps on reminding me of my inner strength. Three years ago I posted ‘Strong‘, using…
Your truth is not my truth, nor a lie
Back when we had the virtual Christmas party for The SafeworD/s Club, we played the game…
Exposed, in more way than one
When I first saw this 4Thoughts prompt, it instantly reminded me writing about being exposed, because…
The history of my pseudonym
I wrote about my pseudonym for the first time in 2012, and again in the post,…
Spring is coming!
Last weekend when I looked out the window, the world around us was white, covered in…
Porn habits… what are mine?
I have never really stopped to really think about my porn habits. I watch porn, occasionally,…
The right head space
Normally when I see a topic of Tell Me About… Dominance and Submission, I have a…
Discipline and punishment… where does it fit in?
You won’t be surprised that at times I am craving discipline and control, and sometimes even…
On being positive about my body, but…
I have posted many an image of myself, in various poses, combined with positive words about…
Bad habits… is that really what they are?
In the introduction of the post where I stated my goals for 2021, I touched on…
Foreplay and afterplay, how and when
I think something I have always taken for granted is what we do before and after…
Six things for advent
You might have noticed that I am participating in The SWC Kinky Community Advent Calendar. I…
Haunted in my dreams
I don’t believe in ghosts, although I do believe that the presence of those we love…
Sex, intimacy and love… one can’t exist without the other?
Almost a year ago, I wrote Death of Sexual Desire in which I talked about the…
Kink vs Fetish, what are my thoughts?
Somehow I have never stopped to think about the difference between a kink and a fetish,…
Assessing my priorities
In the past couple of months things have changed in my life. Some circumstances have forced…