Discipline and punishment… where does it fit in?

You won’t be surprised that at times I am craving discipline and control, and sometimes even…

On being positive about my body, but…

I have posted many an image of myself, in various poses, combined with positive words about…

Bad habits… is that really what they are?

In the introduction of the post where I stated my goals for 2021, I touched on…

Foreplay and afterplay, how and when

I think something I have always taken for granted is what we do before and after…

Six things for advent

You might have noticed that I am participating in The SWC Kinky Community Advent Calendar. I…

My desire for his desire

The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is…

Haunted in my dreams

I don’t believe in ghosts, although I do believe that the presence of those we love…

Sex, intimacy and love… one can’t exist without the other?

Almost a year ago, I wrote Death of Sexual Desire in which I talked about the…

Kink vs Fetish, what are my thoughts?

Somehow I have never stopped to think about the difference between a kink and a fetish,…

Assessing my priorities

In the past couple of months things have changed in my life. Some circumstances have forced…

Limits, but not only in D/s

The last time I wrote about limits was in August 2019, and nothing much have changed…

One defining moment after the other

Looking back on my life, I know there have been some defining moments, moments that changed…

Always trust your gut

Always, always trust your gut. If you feel something is wrong, that’s because it usually is.…

I don’t believe in fate, and then again I do…

I know, the title is a bit confusing… do I believe in fate or not? I…

I’m confident, most of the time…

I never had confidence – never. The hardest thing to know is your own worth, and…

Evolving photography

I have written about photography a couple of times before: Photographer and ModelEver since I have…

Make your own magic

Life is filled with magic, if only you care to look around you. Magic doesn’t always…

Forgive, Never Forget

Life is a journey where we love and learn, where we stand and fall and stand…

Lock-down Love and Life

I have already written about how the lock-down has ‘stolen’ the last bit of my libido…

My Libido Is Gone

There, I have said it. My libido is gone. I have written about my libido before,…

Not because it’s a celebrity…

I am not one who go ooh and aah with celebrities of even get remotely wet…

Discover & Date

I guess when you look at the discovering part of our relationship, one journey of discovery…

Commitment & Communication

If there is one thing in life I don’t doubt even for a second, it’s our…

Best friends & Breaks

My best friend? Most definitely that is my husband. Where in the past I said that…