Shame is a soul eating emotion

I wasn’t going to write for the subject of shame, until this afternoon happened. I know…

Planner and overthinker

I am a planner. I’ve always been and probably always will be a planner. It’s both…

The love of my life

I have written many times before how Master T is the love of my life, and…

Social media, a love-hate relationship

In the past year I have developed a love-hate relationship with social media. It wasn’t always…

Life happens, love binds

People say to me: “I don’t know how you manage with all that’s happening in your…

April showers bring May flowers

I love this expression: April showers bring May flowers. With all going on in my life,…

Style is eternal

Fashions fade, style is eternal. ~ Yves Saint Laurent I have written about style before, and…

Strength, life reminds me

Life keeps on reminding me of my inner strength. Three years ago I posted ‘Strong‘, using…

Your truth is not my truth, nor a lie

Back when we had the virtual Christmas party for The SafeworD/s Club, we played the game…

Exposed, in more way than one

When I first saw this 4Thoughts prompt, it instantly reminded me writing about being exposed, because…

The history of my pseudonym

I wrote about my pseudonym for the first time in 2012, and again in the post,…

Spring is coming!

Last weekend when I looked out the window, the world around us was white, covered in…

Porn habits… what are mine?

I have never really stopped to really think about my porn habits. I watch porn, occasionally,…

The right head space

Normally when I see a topic of Tell Me About… Dominance and Submission, I have a…

Discipline and punishment… where does it fit in?

You won’t be surprised that at times I am craving discipline and control, and sometimes even…

On being positive about my body, but…

I have posted many an image of myself, in various poses, combined with positive words about…

Bad habits… is that really what they are?

In the introduction of the post where I stated my goals for 2021, I touched on…

Foreplay and afterplay, how and when

I think something I have always taken for granted is what we do before and after…

Six things for advent

You might have noticed that I am participating in The SWC Kinky Community Advent Calendar. I…

My desire for his desire

The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is…

Haunted in my dreams

I don’t believe in ghosts, although I do believe that the presence of those we love…

Sex, intimacy and love… one can’t exist without the other?

Almost a year ago, I wrote Death of Sexual Desire in which I talked about the…

Kink vs Fetish, what are my thoughts?

Somehow I have never stopped to think about the difference between a kink and a fetish,…

Assessing my priorities

In the past couple of months things have changed in my life. Some circumstances have forced…