You won’t be surprised that at times I am craving discipline and control, and sometimes even…
Tag: Thoughts
On being positive about my body, but…
I have posted many an image of myself, in various poses, combined with positive words about…
Bad habits… is that really what they are?
In the introduction of the post where I stated my goals for 2021, I touched on…
Foreplay and afterplay, how and when
I think something I have always taken for granted is what we do before and after…
Six things for advent
You might have noticed that I am participating in The SWC Kinky Community Advent Calendar. I…
Haunted in my dreams
I don’t believe in ghosts, although I do believe that the presence of those we love…
Sex, intimacy and love… one can’t exist without the other?
Almost a year ago, I wrote Death of Sexual Desire in which I talked about the…
Kink vs Fetish, what are my thoughts?
Somehow I have never stopped to think about the difference between a kink and a fetish,…
Assessing my priorities
In the past couple of months things have changed in my life. Some circumstances have forced…
Limits, but not only in D/s
The last time I wrote about limits was in August 2019, and nothing much have changed…
One defining moment after the other
Looking back on my life, I know there have been some defining moments, moments that changed…
Always trust your gut
Always, always trust your gut. If you feel something is wrong, that’s because it usually is.…
I don’t believe in fate, and then again I do…
I know, the title is a bit confusing… do I believe in fate or not? I…
I’m confident, most of the time…
I never had confidence – never. The hardest thing to know is your own worth, and…
Evolving photography
I have written about photography a couple of times before: Photographer and ModelEver since I have…
Make your own magic
Life is filled with magic, if only you care to look around you. Magic doesn’t always…
Lock-down Love and Life
I have already written about how the lock-down has ‘stolen’ the last bit of my libido…
Not because it’s a celebrity…
I am not one who go ooh and aah with celebrities of even get remotely wet…
Discover & Date
I guess when you look at the discovering part of our relationship, one journey of discovery…
Best friends & Breaks
My best friend? Most definitely that is my husband. Where in the past I said that…