Haunted in my dreams

I don’t believe in ghosts, although I do believe that the presence of those we love…

Sex, intimacy and love… one can’t exist without the other?

Almost a year ago, I wrote Death of Sexual Desire in which I talked about the…

Kink vs Fetish, what are my thoughts?

Somehow I have never stopped to think about the difference between a kink and a fetish,…

Assessing my priorities

In the past couple of months things have changed in my life. Some circumstances have forced…

One defining moment after the other

Looking back on my life, I know there have been some defining moments, moments that changed…

Always trust your gut

Always, always trust your gut. If you feel something is wrong, that’s because it usually is.…

I don’t believe in fate, and then again I do…

I know, the title is a bit confusing… do I believe in fate or not? I…

I’m confident, most of the time…

I never had confidence – never. The hardest thing to know is your own worth, and…

Forgive, Never Forget

Life is a journey where we love and learn, where we stand and fall and stand…

Lock-down Love and Life

I have already written about how the lock-down has ‘stolen’ the last bit of my libido…

My Libido Is Gone

There, I have said it. My libido is gone. I have written about my libido before,…

Not because it’s a celebrity…

I am not one who go ooh and aah with celebrities of even get remotely wet…

Discover & Date

I guess when you look at the discovering part of our relationship, one journey of discovery…

Commitment & Communication

  If there is one thing in life I don’t doubt even for a second, it’s…

Best friends & Breaks

My best friend? Most definitely that is my husband. Where in the past I said that…

Adapt & Adore

For those who have been following along, you will know that over the past years we…

The Rebel’s Spirituality

Content notice: this post is about religion, and it depicts my own experiences, opinions and beliefs.…

I once was a gymnast…

I was still 11 when I went to high school, but turned 12 less than two…

Mutual dependence

Codepencency… excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, typically a partner who requires support due…

A sex blogger’s privacy

I actually smiled when I saw the prompt for this week’s Food for Thought. We are…

Intimacy doesn’t mean sex

When I saw the prompt for Food for Thought, my first thought was that I have…

Sharing a secret… or not

I am generally a very open person, and at times even an over-sharer. Sometimes I sit…

Fear of the unknown

I am not a fearful person, and I don’t suffer from anxiety. That said, I can…

Processing Pain

I bruise easily, so be gentle when you handle me There’s a mark you leave, like…

A place in the sun

‘Cause there’s a place in the sun where there’s hope for ev’ry one, where my poor…

Be true to yourself!

On my last spa day with my friend, she shared some information with me about her…

Do I want a fuck-buddy or not?

Some time ago I wrote a post for the Erotic Journal Challenge, Embarrassment, in which I…

Spread Love, Not Hate

When I saw the subject for this week’s Food for Thought, the first thought that came…

My Face Value

take someone or something at face value to accept someone or something just as it appears;…

Crazy mama

When I saw this prompt, I stared at it for some time and the first thing…

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