Lock-down Logs

Sunday, 16 March 2020. Sat on the couch in the Holiday Inn in Camden, I kept…

Respect = Love

Respect… I feel it’s one of those words that people tend to throw around, without really…

Mutual dependence

Codepencency… excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, typically a partner who requires support due…

No Barriers

Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination…

Craving Pain

Pain… it’s something I fear, and at the same time, something I miss. Not the emotional…

Mindset and submission

Being in the right mindset is key to D/s working well. This time we are asking…

Out of control…

Control. I miss it. I miss him ordering me to get on my knees. I miss…

Continuously on reset…

As I have mentioned many times on this blog before, our D/s is currently not as…

Consent… sort of…

Nothing can hurt you at all. With your consent I can experiment further still. Lyrics from…

I love you. Yes, you do!

Some say love, it is a river, that drowns the tender reed Some say love, it…

FrienD/s

FrienD/s… The moment I saw this two things came to mind: Being in a D/s relationship…

‘En Public…’

We have never played in public. With that said, we have played where Master T and…

Collars and cuffs

With our D/s in the stage it’s currently in, and has been for two years now,…

Our Kind of Power Exchange

After reading Molly’s post, A Broken Spell, and telling Master T about it the next morning,…

Humiliation: Yes, or No?

I have only briefly written about humiliation before, where I have said that humiliation play is…

Kinky Patient

I have written about roleplay before, and how it definitely just isn’t our thing. It’s not…

I want to be dominated…

I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want…

Unwavering trust

Trust is the most important part of a relationship, closely followed by communication. I think that…

Please Spank Me

Spankings. I love spankings. On Wikipedia it says: Spanking is a common form of corporal punishment,…

Calming Rules

Rules… I used to have them. No, that’s not entirely true… I still have them, but…

Use Your Stoplight!

In BDSM, a safeword is a code word, series of code words or other signal used…

Tie Me Up

Bondage is something we never really got in to. I absolutely love to be tied, to…

New Orgasm Rules Needed

As those who follow my blog and read most of what I write know, nowadays most…

Vulnerable or Weak?

By the time I started writing this post, I have read several posts on vulnerability, which…

My Submission… Still Alive

We would like to introduce our brand new writing prompt by beginning with something easy. The…