Questions… life, sex, D/s

I have so many questions. About life. About things happening in our life, and where this…

Sex toys and me, then and now

Sex toys is not something I will ever discuss while standing at the coffee machine in…

Desire, pleasure, want and need

I tilt my head back, my eyes closed but hidden behind my sunglasses, and cherish the…

Checking in with self-care

Back in January I set my goals for this year, as well as my theme: self-care.…

Life happens, love binds

People say to me: “I don’t know how you manage with all that’s happening in your…

Patience is a virtue

The word patience always makes me smile. I am not a very patient person. When it’s…

Moody… having my moments

I shared the image above in February 2018, with the (now edited) text below… Faith makes…

Sprinkles of kink

Sprinkles of kink were always present throughout my life. Obviously, for many years, it has only…

A foundation of love

I have been thinking about this a lot lately — the foundation of our relationship, and…

My D/s expectations… then and now

Recently I have been thinking a lot about our D/s relationship. Actually, I have been thinking…

My experiences with rope play

Rope play… when you ask Master T whether rope play is a kink of us, he…

Setting goals and a theme for 2021

I don’t like making New Year’s resolutions, because those always seem to have something to do…

Almost 10 years of D/s… our journey

When I wrote the title, I could hardly believe it. Almost 10 years? I searched my…

Longing for control, peace and quiet

Back in 2015 I wrote a post called ‘I want‘ and on re-reading it now, five…

Aftercare… how do we do it?

The first thing I do nowadays when I write about any BDSM-related topic, is to see…

Spanking, and other impact play

Impact play is a term encompassing many different kinds of practices where one person is struck…

My desire for his desire

The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is…

Blindfolds again, and a bit about hoods

I first wrote about blindfolds back in April 2013, and decided to revisit the post and…

Flogging, a reprise

This post was first shared in July 2013, and I thought it was time to update…

Sex, intimacy and love… one can’t exist without the other?

Almost a year ago, I wrote Death of Sexual Desire in which I talked about the…

Suck & swallow, on repeat

This post was first shared in 2012, and always when I see the title, I remember…

Limits, but not only in D/s

The last time I wrote about limits was in August 2019, and nothing much have changed…

Comfortably nude

I grew up with a mom who lay out in our backyard in the sun, naked.…

The Gaze in Sex

“In a world ordered by sexual imbalance, pleasure in looking has been split between active/male and…