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Tag: Tell Me About
Almost 10 years of D/s… our journey
When I wrote the title, I could hardly believe it. Almost 10 years? I searched my…
Longing for control, peace and quiet
Back in 2015 I wrote a post called ‘I want‘ and on re-reading it now, five…
Aftercare… how do we do it?
The first thing I do nowadays when I write about any BDSM-related topic, is to see…
Spanking, and other impact play
Impact play is a term encompassing many different kinds of practices where one person is struck…
Blindfolds again, and a bit about hoods
I first wrote about blindfolds back in April 2013, and decided to revisit the post and…
Sex, intimacy and love… one can’t exist without the other?
Almost a year ago, I wrote Death of Sexual Desire in which I talked about the…
Suck & swallow, on repeat
This post was first shared in 2012, and always when I see the title, I remember…
Limits, but not only in D/s
The last time I wrote about limits was in August 2019, and nothing much have changed…
The Gaze in Sex
“In a world ordered by sexual imbalance, pleasure in looking has been split between active/male and…
The labels that describe me
Whether you love or hate labels, we all need them to some degree to understand ourselves…
Writing, blogging and journaling
This Tell Me About prompt couldn’t have come at a better time since I, just like…
Evolving photography
I have written about photography a couple of times before: Photographer and ModelEver since I have…
Brats and Discipline
Master T is not really into discipline, while I would love for him to discipline me…
A Perfect Balance
Sex should be a perfect balance of pain and pleasure. Without that symmetry, sex becomes a…
Respect = Love
Respect… I feel it’s one of those words that people tend to throw around, without really…
Mutual dependence
Codepencency… excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, typically a partner who requires support due…
No Barriers
Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination…
Craving Pain
Pain… it’s something I fear, and at the same time, something I miss. Not the emotional…