I have so many questions. About life. About things happening in our life, and where this…
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Sex toys and me, then and now
Sex toys is not something I will ever discuss while standing at the coffee machine in…
Desire, pleasure, want and need
I tilt my head back, my eyes closed but hidden behind my sunglasses, and cherish the…
Checking in with self-care
Back in January I set my goals for this year, as well as my theme: self-care.…
Life happens, love binds
People say to me: “I don’t know how you manage with all that’s happening in your…
Patience is a virtue
The word patience always makes me smile. I am not a very patient person. When it’s…
Moody… having my moments
I shared the image above in February 2018, with the (now edited) text below… Faith makes…
Sprinkles of kink
Sprinkles of kink were always present throughout my life. Obviously, for many years, it has only…
A foundation of love
I have been thinking about this a lot lately — the foundation of our relationship, and…
My D/s expectations… then and now
Recently I have been thinking a lot about our D/s relationship. Actually, I have been thinking…
My experiences with rope play
Rope play… when you ask Master T whether rope play is a kink of us, he…
Setting goals and a theme for 2021
I don’t like making New Year’s resolutions, because those always seem to have something to do…
Almost 10 years of D/s… our journey
When I wrote the title, I could hardly believe it. Almost 10 years? I searched my…
Longing for control, peace and quiet
Back in 2015 I wrote a post called ‘I want‘ and on re-reading it now, five…
Aftercare… how do we do it?
The first thing I do nowadays when I write about any BDSM-related topic, is to see…
Spanking, and other impact play
Impact play is a term encompassing many different kinds of practices where one person is struck…
Blindfolds again, and a bit about hoods
I first wrote about blindfolds back in April 2013, and decided to revisit the post and…
Sex, intimacy and love… one can’t exist without the other?
Almost a year ago, I wrote Death of Sexual Desire in which I talked about the…
Suck & swallow, on repeat
This post was first shared in 2012, and always when I see the title, I remember…
Limits, but not only in D/s
The last time I wrote about limits was in August 2019, and nothing much have changed…
The Gaze in Sex
“In a world ordered by sexual imbalance, pleasure in looking has been split between active/male and…