Questions… life, sex, D/s

I have so many questions. About life. About things happening in our life, and where this…

My D/s expectations… then and now

Recently I have been thinking a lot about our D/s relationship. Actually, I have been thinking…

The right head space

Normally when I see a topic of Tell Me About… Dominance and Submission, I have a…

The Edge BDSM box by Tantalize Me

I was contacted by Tantalize Me for a product review of one of their sex toy…

My experiences with rope play

Rope play… when you ask Master T whether rope play is a kink of us, he…

Almost 10 years of D/s… our journey

When I wrote the title, I could hardly believe it. Almost 10 years? I searched my…

13 Things about D/s

13 Things about D/s – Today’s gift is to list 13 things that you love about…

Are you being served?

Are you being served? – Provide a service to someone without being asked. I can’t believe…

Longing for control, peace and quiet

Back in 2015 I wrote a post called ‘I want‘ and on re-reading it now, five…

Aftercare… how do we do it?

The first thing I do nowadays when I write about any BDSM-related topic, is to see…

Spanking, and other impact play

Impact play is a term encompassing many different kinds of practices where one person is struck…

Slaps and Satisfaction

The clock’s hands shows the time as way past midnight when we finally get to bed,…

Blindfolds again, and a bit about hoods

I first wrote about blindfolds back in April 2013, and decided to revisit the post and…

Flogging, a reprise

This post was first shared in July 2013, and I thought it was time to update…

Kink vs Fetish, what are my thoughts?

Somehow I have never stopped to think about the difference between a kink and a fetish,…

Equal rights and responsibilities

I have said it many times before on this blog, but I seem to live with…

Brats and Discipline

Master T is not really into discipline, while I would love for him to discipline me…

Pinching Promises

At the height of our D/s between 2011 and 2016, maybe half of our sessions ended…

Am I a service sub?

I have never thought of myself as a service sub, but recently I have come to…

Spring has sprung

I have been thinking. Spring has sprung, and for the past weeks Master T has seen…

Mindset and submission

Being in the right mindset is key to D/s working well. This time we are asking…

Out of control…

Control. I miss it. I miss him ordering me to get on my knees. I miss…

Yes, we’re back!

Here we are,Back in the sunshine againNo more worries,No more pain Well we’re leaving behind, all…

Are we back?

Dying to know, I’m dying to knowAre we coming back again?Is this making sense?Dying to know…