I have never thought about risky sex as a kink, but when I read the intro by Girl on the Net, I wondered whether I might have a kink for it after all. It’s not like I actively seek out the moments to have risky sex, but I don’t mind when sexy things happen where ... continue reading
It Happened On Friday Night
Normally when something sexy is going to happen, I know. There are always signs that point in the direction. Not this time. Last week I shared a post about the Voices in My Head and I quite rightfully received the advice that I should talk to Master T. Of course I knew this, but I ... continue reading
Sexual Things
One thing I have noticed is that the older I get, the more I understand what I like, what I want, what my needs are. I still don’t know everything, as I believe our entire lives is a learning process, but I know enough about life to know what I prefer. Such as with sex… ... continue reading
Soon… I Hope Soon
Modern life is busy, we all know that. Sometimes a quick wake-up shag, an opportunistic quickie, or a tired, end-of-day, semi-somnolent fumble and snuggle with benefits is all we have the time and energy to manage. There is nothing wrong with these; quick, time limited sex can still be great and is almost certainly better ... continue reading
Love, Affection and Sex
After concentrating on February Photofest last month, I am now back to participate in Food for Thought Friday again. They have been absent for quite some time and I cannot tell you how happy I was when they returned. I cannot promise that I will join in every week, but when I have something to ... continue reading
Growing In Sex
I grew up in the very conservative South Africa, which frequently had me hiding my sexuality and interest in sex. That changed when I came to the Netherlands, and gradually changed even more when I met the love of my life, Master T. I wanted to highlight some highlight in my life, of my ... continue reading
No Space For Sex
Written on 17.06.2017 The last months have not been easy. This might be an understatement. It started out in September 2016 when Master T started having problems with his prosthetic leg. Somewhere between then and halfway through December he also started having panic attacks and hyperventilated. He could not drive anymore, as the information from ... continue reading
Daytime Sex
#fucketlist item 11: Have sex during the day, just because we can This sounds so simple, but with two kids in the house who are around most of the time, it’s difficult to do this. If we would now disappear to the bedroom during daytime, it will make for some awkward moments. We can choose ... continue reading
Let’s Talk About Sex
Of course this blog is all about sex and talking about it, but with this week’s question for Food for Thought Friday, I am focusing on one specific part of talking about sex. The question is: Are you comfortable discussing sex with your partner? Do you have the confidence to ask for what you like/want? ... continue reading
The Numbers Game
Do you need or expect to know how many previous sexual encounters your current sexual partner has had? Is it any of your business? No, it’s none of my business. This is the answer I give because of the situation I am in. I’m married to Master T and we engage in sexual encounters ... continue reading