Teach Me Sex

What were you taught about sex as you grew up? What did you not know that…

Losing My Mojo

A healthy sex life is not something that is obvious when you are in a loving…

Naughty Dreams

In the last — let’s say about — six weeks, I frequently had dreams I could…

Love Matters

Shame on me! This is the first time this year that I am participating in the…

Balance(d)

It’s almost Christmas and the end of the year is fast approaching. I am incredibly busy…

Clothes Mean Nothing

Clothes mean nothing until someone lives in them. ~ Marc Jacobs One morning, as I sat…

My Space

Life happens too fast around me. The last year I have battled to keep up. Battled…

Ruling The World

Rules, they are everywhere. There isn’t an aspect of our lives that isn’t governed by them.…

Sexy Sounds

Whenever I look at porn and the ladies (or gents) are very vocal, I tend to…

Too Much Alone Time

As I start to write this, I am horny and desperately in need of a good…

Educating Youngsters

Back when I grew up, in the conservative South Africa, we never had any sex education…

Love Changes Everything

So this week’s Food for Thought question is all about changing your perceptions about sexual things.…

How Real Am I?

I have blogged about my pseudonym before, and also wrote a post for the accidental visitor…

Dare to Bare

It seems we are heading for summer, as we’ve now had a week of sunshine and…

Under Wraps

I love being naked and to feel my soft skin as my hand wanders down my…

Sexting – A No Go… Or Not

Sexting… the moment I see this word and think about it, I shake my head. I…

Let’s Talk About Sex

Of course this blog is all about sex and talking about it, but with this week’s…

Deal-Breakers… This Turns Me Off

Last week I blogged about what I find sexy, and said that I cannot really pinpoint…

What is sexy?

I haven’t participated in Food for Thought Friday for the last weeks, due to being incredibly…

First Sexual Act

Trigger warning: if you are a victim of (child) abuse, you might not want to read…

The Numbers Game

Do you need or expect to know how many previous sexual encounters your current sexual partner…

Yes, I Cheated

Have you ever cheated? If so, what were the reasons behind it, and how did you…

The Ties That Bind

This is the fourth week of the Food for Thought Friday meme and I was quite…

Punishment or Pleasure

This week’s question for the Food for Thought meme is as follows: Within the D/s community,…