Rules, they are everywhere. There isn’t an aspect of our lives that isn’t governed by them. Every way we turn, everywhere we go, there is someone telling us what we can and cannot do and how we are expected to behave, and what the consequences of failing to keep to those rules may be. As ... continue reading
Sexy Sounds
Whenever I look at porn and the ladies (or gents) are very vocal, I tend to get distracted so much that the porn clip loses its ‘magic’. Therefore I frequently watch porn without any sound, as it’s what’s happening on the screen that interest me. I don’t need to hear them. I, however, am not ... continue reading
Too Much Alone Time
As I start to write this, I am horny and desperately in need of a good fuck. You know, one of those where you don’t have to think, but where things just happen and it’s hot and sexy and filthy and just so damn satisfying. Sadly, chances that such a fuck will happen is very ... continue reading
Educating Youngsters
Back when I grew up, in the conservative South Africa, we never had any sex education in school. I know, right, shocking! In Biology we learned that the sperm fertilizes the egg to form an embryo. Yes, we knew that sperm came from men and eggs from women, but how to get the two together… ... continue reading
Love Changes Everything
So this week’s Food for Thought question is all about changing your perceptions about sexual things. Sometimes you think you will never try or do something, and then something happens and you discover that you actually like it. But it can also work the other way around. One thing I have thought I would never ... continue reading
How Real Am I?
I have blogged about my pseudonym before, and also wrote a post for the accidental visitor of my website. My About Me page will soon be scrutinized to see if all information on there is still correct. Still, I can understand if people ask: Is what you tell us over here real? How real are ... continue reading
Dare to Bare
It seems we are heading for summer, as we’ve now had a week of sunshine and temperatures well into the twenties (Celsius). However, as I sit here at my desk on Sunday, writing and looking outside at the glorious sunshine, I know that tomorrow the temperature is said to drop into the low teens. Summer ... continue reading
Under Wraps
I love being naked and to feel my soft skin as my hand wanders down my body, but there is something about being dressed – whether fully or partially – that is a lot sexier than being naked. This week’s prompt for Food for Thought Friday has gotten me thinking about what I like. What ... continue reading
Sexting – A No Go… Or Not
Sexting… the moment I see this word and think about it, I shake my head. I cannot do it. I just can’t. Sometimes I wish I could, but there is just no way I can. I seem to have this block in me where the moment I see that the opposite party to a conversation ... continue reading
Let’s Talk About Sex
Of course this blog is all about sex and talking about it, but with this week’s question for Food for Thought Friday, I am focusing on one specific part of talking about sex. The question is: Are you comfortable discussing sex with your partner? Do you have the confidence to ask for what you like/want? ... continue reading