Headaches make my head ache

We all get headaches from time to time, but some of us suffer from it more…

Predicting the future

Here in the Netherlands there’s a running joke that the weather people can’t see two days…

A sign of weakness

In our lives, the breaking point is a sign of weakness and we’ll do everything we…

Planner and overthinker

I am a planner. I’ve always been and probably always will be a planner. It’s both…

Checking in with self-care

Back in January I set my goals for this year, as well as my theme: self-care.…

April showers bring May flowers

I love this expression: April showers bring May flowers. With all going on in my life,…

Music as therapy

This evening I had a massage. While I lay there on the table, I tried to…

This storm too shall pass

Life is not easy at this moment. It feels like we are caught up in a…

Spring is coming!

Last weekend when I looked out the window, the world around us was white, covered in…

Take the footpath, not the highway

If life were a highway, I would still look for the footpath, for walking that, I…

Six things for advent

You might have noticed that I am participating in The SWC Kinky Community Advent Calendar. I…

F*ck 2020, but I’m thankful too

F*ck 2020. Just fuck 2020. There, I said it. I’m upset as I write this. Upset.…

Fifteen years… fifteen random things

Today is a special day, a day of celebration, and because of that, I want to…

Life is good!

“Life is good.” This is something Master T and I had said to each other so…