A sign of weakness

In our lives, the breaking point is a sign of weakness and we’ll do everything we…

Masturbation pleasure and problems

When I was younger, masturbation was much different from what it is nowadays. Getting older definitely…

Planner and overthinker

I am a planner. I’ve always been and probably always will be a planner. It’s both…

Checking in with self-care

Back in January I set my goals for this year, as well as my theme: self-care.…

Music as therapy

This evening I had a massage. While I lay there on the table, I tried to…

This storm too shall pass

Life is not easy at this moment. It feels like we are caught up in a…

Spring is coming!

Last weekend when I looked out the window, the world around us was white, covered in…

I’m a giver, giving is imprinted in my DNA

I must have started this post a million times. First I wanted to write about it…

Christmas bows and an arrow

A couple of days ago I shared an image for the kink advent calendar, of bright…

Six things for advent

You might have noticed that I am participating in The SWC Kinky Community Advent Calendar. I…

History repeats, the good and the bad

They say history repeats itself, in that happenings of the past, seem to happen again in…

F*ck 2020, but I’m thankful too

F*ck 2020. Just fuck 2020. There, I said it. I’m upset as I write this. Upset.…

Haunted in my dreams

I don’t believe in ghosts, although I do believe that the presence of those we love…

Life is good!

“Life is good.” This is something Master T and I had said to each other so…

True to myself, changing about page to be more ‘me’

Don’t lose who you are, in the blur of the starsSeeing is deceiving, dreaming is believingIt’s…

Socialize on social media

I struggleI juggleI could just throw a line to youBut I should let sleeping dogs lie…

One defining moment after the other

Looking back on my life, I know there have been some defining moments, moments that changed…

Some doors closed during lockdown

Mid March — on the sixteenth to be specific — we went into lockdown. Now the…

I’m confident, most of the time…

I never had confidence – never. The hardest thing to know is your own worth, and…

Relaxing? What’s that?

According to the dictionary, to relax is to become less active and more calm and happy.…

Lock-down Love and Life

I have already written about how the lock-down has ‘stolen’ the last bit of my libido…

My Experience with Alcohol

It’s Friday evening as I sit at my desk, starting to write this post. Next to…

Recurring Dreams

I’m crossing the street. Trying to cross the street. The other side seems so far away.…

Never blog for someone else

So many people have asked me: how do you manage to do all you do? Believe…