Love is not always about rainbows and roses. It’s hard work. Always hard work. Even if it doesn’t feel like hard work, it still is. When you love someone, and you make a commitment to them, you cannot just sit back and think: okay, we love each other and all will be good forever. In ... continue reading
Love, Affection and Sex
After concentrating on February Photofest last month, I am now back to participate in Food for Thought Friday again. They have been absent for quite some time and I cannot tell you how happy I was when they returned. I cannot promise that I will join in every week, but when I have something to ... continue reading
Love & Marriage
The first time I got married in 1987, I married for love. Or so I thought. I was eighteen when I met him, twenty when I married him and twenty-two when I divorced him. I really believed that I loved him and that he loved me, but eventually I realized that he manipulated me. He ... continue reading
J’taime
After dedicating February Photofest 2017 to the history of my seven years of blogging, I decided to do the A-Z Blogging Challenge 2017 in a similar way. Similar, not the same. J’taime… French for… … I love you … Ik hou van je (Dutch) … Ek is lief vir jou (Afrikaans) … Te amo (Spanish) ... continue reading
Follow Your Heart
If you have been reading my words for quite some time, you know by now I have only found true love when I met Master T. Being able to be myself, being accepted and loved for who I am… with him I am on the most amazing journey of my life. But, he was not ... continue reading
Our Kind Of Monogamy
In recent weeks, even months, I have seen several discussions on social media about monogamy, as well as several articles in the media on the same subject. Reading the words of others, it made me think of our relationship, that of Master T and myself. How should we describe our relationship? Before I share my ... continue reading
Happy New Year 2014
There is one song that is associated with leaving the old year and starting a new one, that always brings tears to my eyes: Should auld acquaintance be forgot And never brought to mind? Should auld acquaintance be forgot And auld lang syne! For auld lang syne, my dear, For auld lang syne. We’ll ... continue reading
Celebrating love
Copied from The Huffington Post: Valentine’s day isn’t all about roses, candy, and expensive dinners. It has a historical background too. Contrary to what some may believe, Valentine’s Day wasn’t created by greetings card companies just to sell cards and candies. It’s actually a church sanctioned holiday, as Pope Gelasius deemed February 14 St. Valentine’s ... continue reading
Different kinds of submissives
Months ago, when this idea popped into my head, I made a note about wanting to write about the different kinds of subs out there. Two years into this lifestyle, which also means two years into reading blogs and tweets of other submissives, have me amazed at the different kinds of people we are. There’s ... continue reading
Good Girl Rebel
I’m a rebel. I’ve been calling myself Rebel for as long as I can remember. But I have not always been a rebel, or I should say, I have not always acted as a rebel even though I might have been one at heart. There was a time when I was a sweet, innocent, obedient ... continue reading