I have written stories for as long as I can remember. Sometimes they were assignments for school, sometimes they were only for me, and mostly there was something erotic in them. Not in the school assignments of course. There were times where I didn’t write, but back in 2010 I wanted a platform where I ... continue reading
Body & Image #SoSS #45
One thing many of us struggle with – men and women – is body image. If I look at myself, I have many days that I look at myself in the mirror and think: you don’t look bad. Other days I stand in front of the mirror and I hate that my belly is bigger, ... continue reading
Touching & Choice #SoSS #44
Yesterday I had the most wonderful day of relaxing. I went to a spa resort with my best friend, and both of us had booked ourselves a 50 minute massage. Mine was a hot stone massage and it was oh-my-god-divine. I really, really, really enjoyed it and after the massage I walked around like I ... continue reading
Boobs & Emotions #SoSS #43
It seems this past week I have read quite a number of posts that dealt with emotions in some or other way. I have highlighted some of those below, but there were more. Whenever I read a post about emotions, I always think about how things are in my own life. There are people who ... continue reading
Positivity & Changes #SoSS #42
I read a couple of posts this week that dealt with positivity in some or other way, whether it was about sex, about body image or about mental health. It made me look long and hard at myself, and on Wednesday I actually told my oldest: I am actually starting to feel better. I can ... continue reading
Elust #109
Photo courtesy of Sex Matters ~ May More Welcome to Elust 109– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #110? Start ... continue reading
Body & Mind #SoSS #41
Sometimes our bodies and minds don’t align, no matter how much we want them too. One of the posts I chose for this roundup illustrates that very well and it made me think of some of those moments where my body and mind were not in sync with each other. It also made me think ... continue reading
Abortion and Family #SoSS #40
This past week, for me, was all about family. Not only the family living with me, but also about extended family, about cousins. It was about reconnecting, about learning that I belong, about being accepted as I am. I could talk about being a sex blogger and not one of them was shocked. In fact, ... continue reading
#Storyin12 and Life #SoSS #39
I have written about #Storyin12 before and have shared my creations for this Twitter challenge, but what I like a lot is how creative some people are with the daily prompt. No two twelve-word stories are the same. Some people take it a step further – something I want to do and need to make ... continue reading
Heat & Rain #SoSS #38
Over here in the Netherlands we are used to rain. Lots of rain. Other parts of Europe are used to it too. However, in the last 2-3 weeks we had little to none and we are into our second heatwave. If I remember correctly, they talk about a heatwave when it has been 25+ degrees ... continue reading