Porn habits… what are mine?

I have never really stopped to really think about my porn habits. I watch porn, occasionally,…

Personal and other traditions

When I saw the prompt for 4Thoughts, my first instinct was to say: I have no…

Discipline and punishment… where does it fit in?

You won’t be surprised that at times I am craving discipline and control, and sometimes even…

Bad habits… is that really what they are?

In the introduction of the post where I stated my goals for 2021, I touched on…

Setting goals and a theme for 2021

I don’t like making New Year’s resolutions, because those always seem to have something to do…

Stockings… from forbidden to everyday dress

There was a time when stockings was more or less forbidden, or rather, they were in…

Longing for control, peace and quiet

Back in 2015 I wrote a post called ‘I want‘ and on re-reading it now, five…

A ‘slap and tickle’ tale

This is the first time I have heard of the term ‘slap and tickle’ and I…

Lest we forget!

God of our fathers, known of old,Lord of our far-flung battle line,Beneath whose awful hand we…

Haunted in my dreams

I don’t believe in ghosts, although I do believe that the presence of those we love…

True to myself, changing about page to be more ‘me’

Don’t lose who you are, in the blur of the starsSeeing is deceiving, dreaming is believingIt’s…

Kink vs Fetish, what are my thoughts?

Somehow I have never stopped to think about the difference between a kink and a fetish,…

Teachers leave those kids alone!

We don’t need no educationWe don’t need no thought controlNo dark sarcasm in the classroomTeachers leave…

One defining moment after the other

Looking back on my life, I know there have been some defining moments, moments that changed…

Liberty, and then some!

Liberty is the right to choose.Freedom is the result of the right choice. — Jules Renard…

The Gaze in Sex

“In a world ordered by sexual imbalance, pleasure in looking has been split between active/male and…

I’m confident, most of the time…

I never had confidence – never. The hardest thing to know is your own worth, and…

Forgive, Never Forget

Life is a journey where we love and learn, where we stand and fall and stand…

My Libido Is Gone

There, I have said it. My libido is gone. I have written about my libido before,…

Lock-down Logs

Sunday, 16 March 2020. Sat on the couch in the Holiday Inn in Camden, I kept…

True Destiny

Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone…

A lifestyle blogger’s privacy

I actually smiled when I saw the prompt for this week’s Food for Thought. We are…

Circle of Friends

I never had many friends, as I was mostly on my own, doing my own thing…

Home is where the heart is

Home is wherever you leave everything you love and never question that it will be there…