Focusing on best days

In a time where worry fills too many of my days, because of Master T’s health,…

Superpower in my dreams

When I saw the prompt ‘superpower’, even before Posy’s prompt was official published on the site,…

The narcissists in my life

Unfortunately, in my life, I came across a couple of narcissists, and I had even been…

Advice, given and taken

I have received a lot of advice in my life, but also have given a lot…

Our-cat-not-our-cat, and other pets

I have already written a post about Snippy, which was my mom’s dog. He was, however,…

Bedroom bloopers

Bedroom bloopers… I was sure some of those happened in my life, but nothing came to…

The mystery of a knight

I wrote this story back in 2014, for the retired meme A Darker Flame, where the…

Masturbation pleasure and problems

When I was younger, masturbation was much different from what it is nowadays. Getting older definitely…

Desire, pleasure, want and need

I tilt my head back, my eyes closed but hidden behind my sunglasses, and cherish the…

Social media, a love-hate relationship

In the past year I have developed a love-hate relationship with social media. It wasn’t always…

Tricks of the trade

I believe we all have things we are good in. We all have skills we have…

Your truth is not my truth, nor a lie

Back when we had the virtual Christmas party for The SafeworD/s Club, we played the game…

Exposed, in more way than one

When I first saw this 4Thoughts prompt, it instantly reminded me writing about being exposed, because…

The history of my pseudonym

I wrote about my pseudonym for the first time in 2012, and again in the post,…

Porn habits… what are mine?

I have never really stopped to really think about my porn habits. I watch porn, occasionally,…

Personal and other traditions

When I saw the prompt for 4Thoughts, my first instinct was to say: I have no…

Discipline and punishment… where does it fit in?

You won’t be surprised that at times I am craving discipline and control, and sometimes even…

Bad habits… is that really what they are?

In the introduction of the post where I stated my goals for 2021, I touched on…

Setting goals and a theme for 2021

I don’t like making New Year’s resolutions, because those always seem to have something to do…

Stockings… from forbidden to everyday dress

There was a time when stockings was more or less forbidden, or rather, they were in…

Longing for control, peace and quiet

Back in 2015 I wrote a post called ‘I want‘ and on re-reading it now, five…

A ‘slap and tickle’ tale

This is the first time I have heard of the term ‘slap and tickle’ and I…

Lest we forget!

God of our fathers, known of old,Lord of our far-flung battle line,Beneath whose awful hand we…

Haunted in my dreams

I don’t believe in ghosts, although I do believe that the presence of those we love…

True to myself, changing about page to be more ‘me’

Don’t lose who you are, in the blur of the starsSeeing is deceiving, dreaming is believingIt’s…

Kink vs Fetish, what are my thoughts?

Somehow I have never stopped to think about the difference between a kink and a fetish,…

Teachers leave those kids alone!

We don’t need no educationWe don’t need no thought controlNo dark sarcasm in the classroomTeachers leave…

One defining moment after the other

Looking back on my life, I know there have been some defining moments, moments that changed…

Liberty, and then some!

Liberty is the right to choose.Freedom is the result of the right choice. — Jules Renard…

The Gaze in Sex

“In a world ordered by sexual imbalance, pleasure in looking has been split between active/male and…