A ‘slap and tickle’ tale

This is the first time I have heard of the term ‘slap and tickle’ and I…

Lest we forget!

God of our fathers, known of old,Lord of our far-flung battle line,Beneath whose awful hand we…

Haunted in my dreams

I don’t believe in ghosts, although I do believe that the presence of those we love…

True to myself, changing about page to be more ‘me’

Don’t lose who you are, in the blur of the starsSeeing is deceiving, dreaming is believingIt’s…

Kink vs Fetish, what are my thoughts?

Somehow I have never stopped to think about the difference between a kink and a fetish,…

Teachers leave those kids alone!

We don’t need no educationWe don’t need no thought controlNo dark sarcasm in the classroomTeachers leave…

One defining moment after the other

Looking back on my life, I know there have been some defining moments, moments that changed…

Liberty, and then some!

Liberty is the right to choose.Freedom is the result of the right choice. — Jules Renard…

The Gaze in Sex

“In a world ordered by sexual imbalance, pleasure in looking has been split between active/male and…

I’m confident, most of the time…

I never had confidence – never. The hardest thing to know is your own worth, and…

Forgive, Never Forget

Life is a journey where we love and learn, where we stand and fall and stand…

My Libido Is Gone

There, I have said it. My libido is gone. I have written about my libido before,…

Lock-down Logs

Sunday, 16 March 2020. Sat on the couch in the Holiday Inn in Camden, I kept…

True Destiny

Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone…

A lifestyle blogger’s privacy

I actually smiled when I saw the prompt for this week’s Food for Thought. We are…

Circle of Friends

I never had many friends, as I was mostly on my own, doing my own thing…

Home is where the heart is

Home is wherever you leave everything you love and never question that it will be there…

Intimacy doesn’t mean sex

When I saw the prompt for Food for Thought, my first thought was that I have…

Carpe Diem

It’s the first day of a new year, the first day of a new decade. I…

Endings and beginnings

Note: I apologize beforehand for a very long post. The week before Christmas, and part of…

From #fucketlist to #bucketlist?

Some weeks ago I put a note in my drafts folder: Revisit #fucketlist on site. Now…

When indulgence hurts…

I like food. I like many kinds of food, but there are quite a lot of…

Freedom is a choice

Freedom is the choice of which master to serve. ~ @askmefast19 The moment I read the…

I fucking miss my mom

Tuesday was my daughter’s 36th birthday and that was the third day in a row I…