30 Days of Submission: Day 29

Continued from… Day 28 Is pain or humiliation (spankings for example) a part of your submission? What is your relationship to it? Do you embrace it as a part of your submission, tolerate it as necessary or have some other type of relationship with it? Humiliation is not part of my submission. Spankings and pain ... continue reading

30 Days of Submission: Day 28

Continued from… Day 27 Has your submission ever let you down? Have you ever been criticized for your submission? Have you ever regretted being or feeling submissive in a moment or in a relationship? Have you ever looked back and realized you made a mistake and how did you handle your submission going forward from ... continue reading

30 Days of Submission: Day 26

Continued from… Day 25 What are the qualities you seek in a dominant partner and why? Are some qualities deal-breakers as in “must” haves or “must not” have? I was never really seeking for a dominant partner. Not consciously, that is. Subconsciously I might always have been looking for a dominant partner, but I never ... continue reading

30 Days of Submission: Day 25

Continued from… Day 24 Are there items, objects or rituals that represent or help you express submission? If not, have you ever thought of adding or being gifted one? Is there a special significance to these objects or rituals? I indeed have some ‘rituals’ that represent my submission. We call these my standing orders. * ... continue reading

30 Days of Submission: Day 24

Continued from… Day 23 What are the emotions that most directly let you access submission? What feelings do they inspire? I have never really thought about this. To be honest, I have searched the Internet to see whether I could get some kind of angle in which I could answer these questions. It did help, ... continue reading

30 Days of Submission: Day 23

Continued from… Day 22 Is there anything about submission (yours or what you see in others) that you question, dislike or repels you? Was there a time you questioned or were resistant to your own submissive feelings? There is nothing in my own submission that I question, dislike or that repels me. Regarding what others ... continue reading

30 Days of Submission: Day 22

Continued from… Day 21 Can you feel submissive without a dominant partner? If so, how does your submission express itself? If not, how do you handle your submission or submissive feelings? Since I am now in my first ever D/s relationship, it is quite difficult to answer the questions above. I can however try to ... continue reading

30 Days of Submission: Day 21

Continued from… Day 20 Is there a physical position that makes you feel most submissive? Kneeling in front of Master T. and seeing only His feet, makes me feel submissive. Sitting on the stool or the side of the bed in a position He wants me in, makes me feel submissive. Being spread-eagled on the ... continue reading