Day 30: Whatever BDSM/kink related thing you want to write about.

To end the series in the 30 days of kink, I would like to post a…

Day 29: Do you have a BDSM title (e.g. mistress, master, slut, pig, whore, princess, goddess, ma’am, sir)? What is your opinion of the use of title in general?

I don’t have an official title, neither has my Husband as my Dom. However, He does…

Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?

I have never specifically dressed for any kind of play. Oh, there were the occasional evening…

Day 27: Do your non-kink interests ever find their way into your kinky activities? If so, how?

This is something I have never thought about before. There are so many things that I…

Day 26: What’s your opinion on online BDSM play?

I know that there has been a question earlier in this series about things you do…

Day 25: How open are you about your kinks?

I am a very open person and would love to be able to be much more…

Day 24: What qualities do you look for in a partner?

I can answer this with one sentence: the qualities I look for in a partner are…

Day 23: Since you first developed an interest in kink, have your interests/perspectives changed? How so?

Oh yes, my interest and perspective have definitely changed. How? I. Want. More. Whenever I read…

Day 22: What do you think is important in keeping a BDSM relationship healthy? How does it differ from a vanilla relationship?

In alphabetical order: communication, honesty and respect and trust. In my opinion these four things are…

Day 21: Favorite BDSM related book (fiction or non-fiction)

I love to read. I love books. I love a good plot. In my life I…

Day 20: Talk about something within kink/bdsm that you’re curious about/don’t understand

Again I want to start off by saying that I respect everyone for the way they…

Day 19: Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life? If so, what are they?

The first thing that springs to mind is that kink unexpectedly became a big part of…

Day 18: Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?

Pet peeves? What are pet peeves? Pet peeves are things that irritate you or you just…

Day 17: What misconception about kinky people would you most like to clear up?

Referring to what I wrote in my answer to the question for Day 16 in the…

Day 16: What are the most difficult aspects of having a sexuality that involves kink or BDSM for you personally?

What I find the most difficult aspect of having a sexuality that involves BDSM/kink is the…

Day 15: Post a BDSM/kink activity you’re curious about and would like to try

There are so many things that I am curious about. In the bus tour fantasy that…

Day 14: How would you say real life BDSM/kink varies from fantasy BDSM/kink? If you haven’t experienced real life BDSM/kink how do you think it might differ?

The biggest difference for me between fantasy BDSM/kink and real life BDSM/kink is that in real…

Day 13: Explain as best you can what the appeal of kink/BDSM is to you? Why are you drawn to what you’re drawn to?

I have grown up in a traditional family where the father and husband was the boss.…

Day 12: Tell us about a humorous BDSM/kink experience you’ve had. If you haven’t had one, talk about aspects of kink/BDSM you find funny

I have not really had any BDSM/kink experience that is funny, but what did spring to…

Day 11: What are your views on the ethics of kink?

Respect. Consent. Safe. In my view, there are some things that are totally unethical. Pedophilia is…

Day 10: What are your hard limits?

Limits are something we have spoken about many times. Every time when I think I have…

Day 9: Post a kink related song or music video you enjoy

Both my Husband and me love the movie “Streets of Fire”. The song “Tonight is what…

Day 8: Post a kinky image you find erotic

Something I find very erotic and fulfilling is my submission to my Husband. Thinking about it…

Day 7: What’s your favorite toy?

I don’t really have one favorite toy. I have several… Those that spring to mind now…

Day 6: Describe your weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy

My weirdest/most interesting sexual fantasy? Quite an interesting question, and one that had me thinking for…

Day 5: What was your first kinky sexual experience? If you haven’t had one yet, talk about what you hope to have happen

My first kinky sexual experience? WOW, that’s quite a question! If I remember correctly I have…

Day 4: Any early experiences that, in retrospect, hint at your kinks?

Yes. But I guess saying only that is not sufficient. So let me elaborate. When speaking…

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

In a way it has been a gradual process. Due to some life changing experiences there…

Day 2: List your kinks

I have put my kinds in alphabetical order, as none of these kinks have more importance…

Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self for us

Dom? No, I am definitely not a Dom and cannot even imagine myself as one. Looking…

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