Restoring my balance

I hate the moments that I feel out of sorts. The moments where I am not…

Prostate play/Prostate Massage

One thought kept on playing over and over in my head when I saw the topic…

Tattoo perils

For about 6 months in 2013 – if not more – I have been orientating about…

Fourth & third birthdays

I cannot believe it. No serious, I really cannot believe this. It is my fourth blogoversary.…

Cuckoldry

After the post I have done on different kinds of relationships, some more ideas crossed my…

Consuming Semen

When Sassy suggested this as a prompt for Wicked Wednesday, I was intrigued: I recently had…

Enough is enough… or is it?

Is enough really enough? So many things come to mind when I hear the word enough.…

Confessions and confessing

I love this prompt by @ChintzCurtain. At first I was going to do a totally different…

Funishment

Funishment… A nice way of being punished, usually in a sexual way. That were more or…

Different kinds of relationships

I have been on Twitter for almost three years now, and in those three years I…

I AM good enough!

A week before the day of our last play date, we still had no reaction on…

My nudity

If you look at my blog, you will think I never have a problem with nudity.…

More BDSM mindset musings… please let me ramble… (3/3)

Continued from… More BDSM mindset musings… please let me ramble… (2/3) One of the most important…

More BDSM mindset musings… please let me ramble… (2/3)

Continued from More BDSM mindset musings… please let me ramble… (1/3) One of the first things…

More BDSM mindset musings… please let me ramble… (1/3)

Some recent posts I have written on my thoughts and feelings have lead to a series of conversations…

Kinky Assumptions

We were preparing for an important meeting for the next day. The meeting was going to…

Marks

I have so much to say about this week’s topic, that I do not even know…

Submitting to His Will

Why is it so difficult to just submit to His will. To just let go of…

Your kink is not my kink

I was naked and watching Master T as He unpacked the bag He had brought with…

Growing Pains

I try to keep posts on my blog as interesting as possible. I write about encounters…

Masochist

I’ve had this question of the Submissive Guide in my ‘to do’ list for quite some…

Caning: To count or not to count

There were no signs to warn me that anything was about to happen. Normally I ‘sense’…

Confused? Definitely not!

On several occasions before our third date I saw some tweets about polygamy and polyamory. During…

Piercing ponderings

It’s been three months ago that I had my second set of labia piercings. They have…

Different kinds of submissives

Months ago, when this idea popped into my head, I made a note about wanting to…

Kink Shame & Pride: Insecurities

This post is a continuance of the Kink Shame & Pride that started with a post…

Have I always been submissive?

Two weeks ago I did a post on whether submission is what I really want. This…

They are reading the book!

This post is a continuance of the Kink Shame & Pride that started with a post…

Pride & Shame

Last week Emily of I Like Chocolate, He Likes Vanilla posted a fantasy called The Punishment. This…

Vanilla thoughts

Some time ago I had an interesting conversation with an acquaintance that is very vanilla. Not…