F*ck 2020, but I’m thankful too

F*ck 2020. Just fuck 2020. There, I said it. I’m upset as I write this. Upset.…

Trust as default

My default is trust. Scratch that. My default was trust. It’s actually quite sad that due…

Lest we forget!

God of our fathers, known of old,Lord of our far-flung battle line,Beneath whose awful hand we…

My desire for his desire

The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is…

Sex, intimacy and love… one can’t exist without the other?

Almost a year ago, I wrote Death of Sexual Desire in which I talked about the…

Kink vs Fetish, what are my thoughts?

Somehow I have never stopped to think about the difference between a kink and a fetish,…

Limits, but not only in D/s

The last time I wrote about limits was in August 2019, and nothing much have changed…

Liberty, and then some!

Liberty is the right to choose.Freedom is the result of the right choice. — Jules Renard…

Finding inspiration everywhere

In a recent post I have mentioned how some doors have closed for me, and how…

The Gaze in Sex

“In a world ordered by sexual imbalance, pleasure in looking has been split between active/male and…

Writing, blogging and journaling

This Tell Me About prompt couldn’t have come at a better time since I, just like…

Evolving photography

I have written about photography a couple of times before: Photographer and ModelEver since I have…

Make your own magic

Life is filled with magic, if only you care to look around you. Magic doesn’t always…

Equal rights and responsibilities

I have said it many times before on this blog, but I seem to live with…

Defender ISFJ-T: Strengths and Weaknesses

Love only grows by sharing. You can only have more for yourself by giving it away…

A Perfect Balance

Sex should be a perfect balance of pain and pleasure. Without that symmetry, sex becomes a…

My Libido Is Gone

There, I have said it. My libido is gone. I have written about my libido before,…

Am I a service sub?

I have never thought of myself as a service sub, but recently I have come to…

Spring has sprung

I have been thinking. Spring has sprung, and for the past weeks Master T has seen…

Interested & Intimacy

From the moment Master T and I started chatting to each other, two months before we…

Respect = Love

Respect… I feel it’s one of those words that people tend to throw around, without really…

Dating Experiences

I have written about dating on my blog before (disclaimer: some of them are sponsored posts),…

Mutual dependence

Codepencency… excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, typically a partner who requires support due…

True Destiny

Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone…