Blindfolds again, and a bit about hoods

I first wrote about blindfolds back in April 2013, and decided to revisit the post and…

Flogging, a reprise

This post was first shared in July 2013, and I thought it was time to update…

Sex, intimacy and love… one can’t exist without the other?

Almost a year ago, I wrote Death of Sexual Desire in which I talked about the…

Suck & swallow, on repeat

This post was first shared in 2012, and always when I see the title, I remember…

Limits, but not only in D/s

The last time I wrote about limits was in August 2019, and nothing much have changed…

Comfortably nude

I grew up with a mom who lay out in our backyard in the sun, naked.…

The Gaze in Sex

“In a world ordered by sexual imbalance, pleasure in looking has been split between active/male and…

The labels that describe me

Whether you love or hate labels, we all need them to some degree to understand ourselves…

Writing, blogging and journaling

This Tell Me About prompt couldn’t have come at a better time since I, just like…

Evolving photography

I have written about photography a couple of times before: Photographer and ModelEver since I have…

Brats and Discipline

Master T is not really into discipline, while I would love for him to discipline me…

A Perfect Balance

Sex should be a perfect balance of pain and pleasure. Without that symmetry, sex becomes a…

Am I a service sub?

I have never thought of myself as a service sub, but recently I have come to…

Lock-down Logs

Sunday, 16 March 2020. Sat on the couch in the Holiday Inn in Camden, I kept…

Respect = Love

Respect… I feel it’s one of those words that people tend to throw around, without really…

Mutual dependence

Codepencency… excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, typically a partner who requires support due…

No Barriers

Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination…

Craving Pain

Pain… it’s something I fear, and at the same time, something I miss. Not the emotional…

Mindset and submission

Being in the right mindset is key to D/s working well. This time we are asking…

Out of control…

Control. I miss it. I miss him ordering me to get on my knees. I miss…

Continuously on reset…

As I have mentioned many times on this blog before, our D/s is currently not as…

Godemiche’s Peg ‘n Plug

It’s been years since I last had anal sex. In fact, I can’t even remember when…

Consent… sort of…

Nothing can hurt you at all. With your consent I can experiment further still. Lyrics from…

I love you. Yes, you do!

Some say love, it is a river, that drowns the tender reed Some say love, it…

FrienD/s

FrienD/s… The moment I saw this two things came to mind: Being in a D/s relationship…

‘En Public…’

We have never played in public. With that said, we have played where Master T and…

Collars and cuffs

With our D/s in the stage it’s currently in, and has been for two years now,…

Our Kind of Power Exchange

After reading Molly’s post, A Broken Spell, and telling Master T about it the next morning,…

Humiliation: Yes, or No?

I have only briefly written about humiliation before, where I have said that humiliation play is…

Kinky Patient

I have written about roleplay before, and how it definitely just isn’t our thing. It’s not…

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