There was a time when stockings was more or less forbidden, or rather, they were in…
Category: Sexy & Kinky
Longing for control, peace and quiet
Back in 2015 I wrote a post called ‘I want‘ and on re-reading it now, five…
Foreplay and afterplay, how and when
I think something I have always taken for granted is what we do before and after…
Spanking, and other impact play
Impact play is a term encompassing many different kinds of practices where one person is struck…
Blindfolds again, and a bit about hoods
I first wrote about blindfolds back in April 2013, and decided to revisit the post and…
Sex, intimacy and love… one can’t exist without the other?
Almost a year ago, I wrote Death of Sexual Desire in which I talked about the…
Kink vs Fetish, what are my thoughts?
Somehow I have never stopped to think about the difference between a kink and a fetish,…
Suck & swallow, on repeat
This post was first shared in 2012, and always when I see the title, I remember…
Showing herself… aka as showing myself
I originally posted ‘Showing herself’ on 30 November 2010, which was actually the beginning days of…
The Gaze in Sex
“In a world ordered by sexual imbalance, pleasure in looking has been split between active/male and…
The labels that describe me
Whether you love or hate labels, we all need them to some degree to understand ourselves…
Double the fun with a stardust harness
I knew I wasn’t going to be able to do this tie myself, so mentioned to…
Evolving photography
I have written about photography a couple of times before: Photographer and ModelEver since I have…
Equal rights and responsibilities
I have said it many times before on this blog, but I seem to live with…
A Perfect Balance
Sex should be a perfect balance of pain and pleasure. Without that symmetry, sex becomes a…
Just One Finger
Faint light streams in from under the blinds when she opens her eyes. She’s wide awake,…
Interested & Intimacy
From the moment Master T and I started chatting to each other, two months before we…
Dating Experiences
I have written about dating on my blog before (disclaimer: some of them are sponsored posts),…