A ‘slap and tickle’ tale

This is the first time I have heard of the term ‘slap and tickle’ and I…

Spanking, and other impact play

Impact play is a term encompassing many different kinds of practices where one person is struck…

My desire for his desire

The desire of the man is for the woman, but the desire of the woman is…

Blindfolds again, and a bit about hoods

I first wrote about blindfolds back in April 2013, and decided to revisit the post and…

Flogging, a reprise

This post was first shared in July 2013, and I thought it was time to update…

Sex, intimacy and love… one can’t exist without the other?

Almost a year ago, I wrote Death of Sexual Desire in which I talked about the…

Kink vs Fetish, what are my thoughts?

Somehow I have never stopped to think about the difference between a kink and a fetish,…

Suck & swallow, on repeat

This post was first shared in 2012, and always when I see the title, I remember…

Showing herself… aka as showing myself

I originally posted ‘Showing herself’ on 30 November 2010, which was actually the beginning days of…

Comfortably nude

I grew up with a mom who lay out in our backyard in the sun, naked.…

The Gaze in Sex

“In a world ordered by sexual imbalance, pleasure in looking has been split between active/male and…

The labels that describe me

Whether you love or hate labels, we all need them to some degree to understand ourselves…

Double the fun with a stardust harness

I knew I wasn’t going to be able to do this tie myself, so mentioned to…

Evolving photography

I have written about photography a couple of times before: Photographer and ModelEver since I have…

Equal rights and responsibilities

I have said it many times before on this blog, but I seem to live with…

A Perfect Balance

Sex should be a perfect balance of pain and pleasure. Without that symmetry, sex becomes a…

My Libido Is Gone

There, I have said it. My libido is gone. I have written about my libido before,…

Just One Finger

Faint light streams in from under the blinds when she opens her eyes. She’s wide awake,…

Interested & Intimacy

From the moment Master T and I started chatting to each other, two months before we…

Dating Experiences

I have written about dating on my blog before (disclaimer: some of them are sponsored posts),…

Masturbation Studio

Back when I did my planning for 2020, one of the goals I put in there…

No Barriers

Love recognizes no barriers. It jumps hurdles, leaps fences, penetrates walls to arrive at its destination…

Claim me

Look at my bottom… my smooth flesh… the rounding of my buttocks… your unmarked target. Run…

Two Fingers

The only shame in masturbation is the shame of not doing it well.~ Sigmund Freud Saturday…