Continuously on reset…

As I have mentioned many times on this blog before, our D/s is currently not as…

Those first two doors…

I happened to see the questions for this prompt on Twitter, and immediately my mind started…

Memories & Moments

Memories can be sparked by simple things – a song on the radio, a smell, a…

One Step Back

My regular readers will have noticed: for months now a new blog post appeared on my…

Processing dreams

Like Alice in wonderland The dream takes you by the hand Inside emotions that you might…

Be true to yourself!

On my last spa day with my friend, she shared some information with me about her…

Rituals… or routine?

For this post I want to concentrate on something else than the BDSM rituals we have/had,…

We will prevail…

Mental Health and it’s impact on your sexuality, erotic well-being, and/or sexual relationships I have written…

Medicine and Sex

It’s no secret that there are quite a number of medicines out there that fucks with…

Overwhelming Grief

I didn’t think I would write another post about my grief after mom passed away, now…

I Hate Bullies!

Back in May 2018 (god has it really been that long?), I left an comment on…

I Feel Like A Bitch…

I have always put others first. I think it’s embedded in my DNA to do that,…

Failing Bodies

Some time ago I left this comment on Feve’s post If problem persists, please contact Technical…

The Carer Needs Care

Alone time, or making time for yourself is an important, if often overlooked part of looking…

Losing My Mojo

A healthy sex life is not something that is obvious when you are in a loving…

Less Sex, Less Drive

Secondly, I think my sex drive would probably just start to erode. My lust is pretty…

Discharged from Therapy

Today is the 20th of December 2018. This afternoon I had an appointment with my psychologist.…

Balance(d)

It’s almost Christmas and the end of the year is fast approaching. I am incredibly busy…

Following Fingers

Why didn’t I dare to talk to my mom that last day? Why didn’t I dare…

Gratitude

Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.…

Permanent Mark

On the day my mom was buried in 2017, I posted ‘Remembrance‘, a post in which…

PTSD & EMDR

Before I tell you about my last visit to the psychologist, I want to thank those…

Connection, No Sex

I had this conversation with a friend, and suddenly something struck me: I am content with…

Something’s Missing

Tomorrow I have to go to the grief counselor again. The last time was six weeks…