On getting older…

What are your thoughts (hopes… fears… expectations…) regarding sexuality as you age? The first thing I…

I Feel Like A Bitch…

I have always put others first. I think it’s embedded in my DNA to do that,…

Failing Bodies

Some time ago I left this comment on Feve’s post If problem persists, please contact Technical…

The Carer Needs Care

Alone time, or making time for yourself is an important, if often overlooked part of looking…

Losing My Mojo

A healthy sex life is not something that is obvious when you are in a loving…

Less Sex, Less Drive

Secondly, I think my sex drive would probably just start to erode. My lust is pretty…

Discharged from Therapy

Today is the 20th of December 2018. This afternoon I had an appointment with my psychologist.…

Balance(d)

It’s almost Christmas and the end of the year is fast approaching. I am incredibly busy…

Following Fingers

Why didn’t I dare to talk to my mom that last day? Why didn’t I dare…

PTSD & EMDR

Before I tell you about my last visit to the psychologist, I want to thank those…

Connection, No Sex

I had this conversation with a friend, and suddenly something struck me: I am content with…

“I’ll get started tomorrow…”

“I’ll get started tomorrow…” What behavior or activity do you keep pushing off until tomorrow? What…

Something’s Missing

Tomorrow I have to go to the grief counselor again. The last time was six weeks…

Pick Me Up

“The worst loneliness is to not be comfortable with yourself.” ~ Mark Twain In my years…

Disconnecting

My assignment for the third appointment with my grief counselor wasn’t to write anything, but I…

My Space

Life happens too fast around me. The last year I have battled to keep up. Battled…

Processing More

Some weeks ago I started sharing the process I am now: dealing with the grief of…

Brazilian Wax Gone Wrong

For close to a year now I have gone for a Brazilian wax every four weeks,…

Dealing With Grief

My mom died on 12 July 2017. My mom was buried on 19 July 2017. Our…

Voices In My Head

Some of you might have seen my meltdown post in the past weekend. It all happened…

Life… grief, depression and disability

Everyone who has followed this blog or my Twitter in the last year knows that my…

LCHF #18: Famous Last Words

Continued from… LCHF #17: Back on track? I am, however, keeping an eye on my weight,…

LCHF #17: Back on track?

Continued from… LCHF #16: Six Months Background, written on 8 May My last post was in…

LCHF #16: Six Months

Continued from LCHF #15: Fighting Demons Two weeks ago I spoke about the demons that were…