Don’t worry about me…

Don’t worry about me, I’ll be fine. Just don’t look into my eyes. ~ Life quote…

Mutual dependence

Codepencency… excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner, typically a partner who requires support due…

#LCHF 20: Finally!

Continued from… LCHF #19: It’s been two year since my last confession… I am not planning…

How do I do LCHF?

Last week I wrote about being fructose intolerant, and how I came about to follow the…

Food intolerance

In 2016 I wrote a post in which I mentioned that I have been diagnosed as…

LCHF #19: It’s been two year since my last confession…

Seriously… exactly two years ago (minus one day) I wrote LCHF #18. Those really were ‘famous…

A motto, why?

During the evening of New Year’s Eve 2019 as I wrote my post for the first…

Seasonal Emotions

It’s twelve days before Christmas, and since a couple of days tears have been closer than…

When indulgence hurts…

I like food. I like many kinds of food, but there are quite a lot of…

I fucking miss my mom

Tuesday was my daughter’s 36th birthday and that was the third day in a row I…

Continuously on reset…

As I have mentioned many times on this blog before, our D/s is currently not as…

One Step Back

My regular readers will have noticed: for months now a new blog post appeared on my…

Processing dreams

Like Alice in wonderland The dream takes you by the hand Inside emotions that you might…

Be true to yourself!

On my last spa day with my friend, she shared some information with me about her…

Rituals… or routine?

For this post I want to concentrate on something else than the BDSM rituals we have/had,…

We will prevail…

Mental Health and it’s impact on your sexuality, erotic well-being, and/or sexual relationships I have written…

Medicine and Sex

It’s no secret that there are quite a number of medicines out there that fucks with…

Overwhelming Grief

I didn’t think I would write another post about my grief after mom passed away, now…

I Hate Bullies!

Back in May 2018 (god has it really been that long?), I left an comment on…

On getting older…

What are your thoughts (hopes… fears… expectations…) regarding sexuality as you age? The first thing I…

I Feel Like A Bitch…

I have always put others first. I think it’s embedded in my DNA to do that,…

Failing Bodies

Some time ago I left this comment on Feve’s post If problem persists, please contact Technical…

The Carer Needs Care

Alone time, or making time for yourself is an important, if often overlooked part of looking…

Losing My Mojo

A healthy sex life is not something that is obvious when you are in a loving…

Less Sex, Less Drive

Secondly, I think my sex drive would probably just start to erode. My lust is pretty…

Discharged from Therapy

Today is the 20th of December 2018. This afternoon I had an appointment with my psychologist.…

Balance(d)

It’s almost Christmas and the end of the year is fast approaching. I am incredibly busy…

Following Fingers

Why didn’t I dare to talk to my mom that last day? Why didn’t I dare…

PTSD & EMDR

Before I tell you about my last visit to the psychologist, I want to thank those…

Connection, No Sex

I had this conversation with a friend, and suddenly something struck me: I am content with…