Questions… life, sex, D/s

I have so many questions. About life. About things happening in our life, and where this…

Patience is a virtue

The word patience always makes me smile. I am not a very patient person. When it’s…

A foundation of love

I have been thinking about this a lot lately — the foundation of our relationship, and…

My D/s expectations… then and now

Recently I have been thinking a lot about our D/s relationship. Actually, I have been thinking…

The right head space

Normally when I see a topic of Tell Me About… Dominance and Submission, I have a…

My experiences with rope play

Rope play… when you ask Master T whether rope play is a kink of us, he…

Discipline and punishment… where does it fit in?

You won’t be surprised that at times I am craving discipline and control, and sometimes even…

What’s in Santa’s sack?

What’s in Santa’s sack? – Have a number of toys hidden and chose one randomly to…

Almost 10 years of D/s… our journey

When I wrote the title, I could hardly believe it. Almost 10 years? I searched my…

13 Things about D/s

13 Things about D/s – Today’s gift is to list 13 things that you love about…

Are you being served?

Are you being served? – Provide a service to someone without being asked. I can’t believe…

Longing for control, peace and quiet

Back in 2015 I wrote a post called ‘I want‘ and on re-reading it now, five…

8 Maids a’ Milking aka nipple play

8 Maids a’ Milking – Either intense Nipple play or Cock play for 8 minutes. The…

Aftercare… how do we do it?

The first thing I do nowadays when I write about any BDSM-related topic, is to see…

Spanking, and other impact play

Impact play is a term encompassing many different kinds of practices where one person is struck…

Slaps and Satisfaction

The clock’s hands shows the time as way past midnight when we finally get to bed,…

Flogging, a reprise

This post was first shared in July 2013, and I thought it was time to update…

You take my self control

Sometimes, in some situations, I wish I could just let go; to show my true and…

Limits, but not only in D/s

The last time I wrote about limits was in August 2019, and nothing much have changed…

Are we really back this time?

Back in September 2019 I wrote a post with the title ‘Are we back?‘ and a…

The labels that describe me

Whether you love or hate labels, we all need them to some degree to understand ourselves…

Brats and Discipline

Master T is not really into discipline, while I would love for him to discipline me…

Pinching Promises

At the height of our D/s between 2011 and 2016, maybe half of our sessions ended…

Am I a service sub?

I have never thought of myself as a service sub, but recently I have come to…

Spring has sprung

I have been thinking. Spring has sprung, and for the past weeks Master T has seen…

Craving Pain

Pain… it’s something I fear, and at the same time, something I miss. Not the emotional…

Mark Me and I Belong

I can’t deny it. Being marked is a kink of mine. There is nothing as satisfying…

Mindset and submission

Being in the right mindset is key to D/s working well. This time we are asking…

My nipples are not broken ?

Ever since I had my nipples pierced again, I had been so careful with them. A…

Vignettes of Kink

She teases him. Plays hard to get. She knows what he’s after, but she wants him…