About me, Marie A. Rebelle

I am Marie A. Rebelle.

Maybe you have accidentally stumbled in this website, and maybe you don’t like what you see. That’s perfectly okay, as we are not all the same, and don’t all like the same things. It remains your choice to leave and carry on.

If you do like what you see, or you might be just a bit curious to explore here, I hope you will take the time to get to know more about me, read my words and enjoy the pictures. You see, I am just a normal person. Words that describe me are: kindness, respect, love. I’m not a pervert, not a meanie… just a normal person, who has an above average interest in sexy things!

Who is Marie A. Rebelle?

I’m a woman, a wife, a mother, a daughter.

I’m a colleague, a friend and a lover.

Born and raised in South Africa, I turned 50 in 2017, live in the Netherlands and in my professional life I work with numbers. Back in 2018, I took a step back from a management position, as I lost my mom in 2017 and it had a huge impact on my life.

In my personal life, I identify as submissive and bisexual. I am in a power exchange relationship with my husband, and when life is good and we are active ‘in the scene’, you will read more about that here, as well as about other sexual experiences.

But, that’s not all you will read here.

I also blog about everyday things, such as music and books, diet and menopause, mental and physical health. This is a lifestyle blog, so expect to read about many aspects of my normal life, as well as what others might see as my ‘not-so-normal’ life.

Submissive nature

I am submissive to my husband. He loves me. He owns me.
I love him. I submit to him. I’m his. His wife. His sub. His slut.

I am only a slut to others when my husband expects me to be.

When we started out on our D/s journey it was confined to the bedroom, but over time it has grown to be an inextricable part of our lives. We have 24/7 mindset, but the uninformed in daily life will never notice that I submit to him, that he owns me. In 2017 our D/s started to slack due to my grief and my husband’s health, but it’s always simmered under the surface. It picked up some towards the second half of 2020, but due to my husband’s serious health issues, our D/s currently only live in our minds.

Words are my own

This is my blog and all words are my own, except when mentioned otherwise. All feelings and thoughts I write about are real. I write about my fears, my excitement, my nervous moments, my victories and my failures. I write about the growth in our relationship, about my growth. I write about my grief for my mom, about my (mental) health. I share them in all honesty. If my words can help one person out there, it makes me happy. When I write about my sexual experiences, every word has been penned down in all honesty, coming from my heart.

I’m a hard worker, have empathy for others to the point where I forget about myself, like to help people and in general I think I can describe myself as a nice person to know.

Besides finding my words on this blog, there are several books in which you can find it too, as I am a published author.

Images are my own

You will find many images on this blog, and those that are not my own, are credited to their sources. All my own images have my watermark on them. Some of those images have been made by my husband, and others have been made by me. Towards the end of 2019, we changed our attic room into a photo studio for me, and I finally had a dedicated space for my self photography.

I like to share photos of myself. I am an exhibitionist by nature, even though I am quite shy too!

Memes & Projects

I started running the weekly meme, Wicked Wednesday, in June 2012, and it’s still going strong. Besides this meme, I also run The Menopause Diaries. Please get involved with the memes if you have your own blog (and even if you don’t), as it is a way to raise the visibility of your blog and build a supporting community.

In 2020 a simple conversation between a fellow blogger and me, lead to three of us starting a project together: Blogable. May, Missy and I have learned so much about many aspects of blogging and writing (technical and otherwise) in the past years, and we want to share our knowledge with others. It’s amazing to be involved in this project with these two fabulous ladies, who have become dear friends in difficult times, and we invite you all to join our site. It’s free, and you will not only find our information sharing there, but also forums where you can discuss blogging and writing and share your own tips & tricks.

Projects which I used to do in the past is running a Dutch writing group for 5 years (1 Dec 2012 – 1 Dec 2017), and the Smut Marathon for 6.5 years (4 years for the Dutch community, and 2.5 years for the English).

In February 2021, I also started posting on Medium, and some posts there have never appeared on this website, so please follow me there too.

Want to know more about Marie?

Like I said above, I am a normal person. I am of average height, a bit overweight (forever working on that!), and when you see me walking down the street, there is nothing that would immediately distinguish me from any other person. Maybe you notice my blondish-grey hair, or my round bottom or maybe even my small breasts or tattoos. Sometimes I wear a short skirt with high heels, other times I wear pants with flat shoes. If you see me, I am ‘just another woman’. I don’t have a label stuck on me that says ‘kinky woman’ or ‘submissive’, just as there are no labels ‘married’ or ‘mother’ to be seen.

Nothing on the outside will tell you who I really am. However, if you read my words and see my images on this website, you will get to know more about me. And, you are always welcome to ask me questions. I might not answer all of them, but you will always receive an answer.


~ Marie A. Rebelle
Updated 08.09.2021

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