Back in March 2014 this post appeared for the first time, just after I had taken over The Oral Sex Project (back then it was called The Fellatio Project). I realized The Oral Sex Project might become a ‘hidden’ meme and I would have to work that much ‘harder’ (pun intended) to promote it. At the same time it made me think of other ‘hidden’ memes.
Memes that run weekly or fortnightly – with or without a prompt – tend to get more attention from bloggers than those that are out there to link your post to whenever you have it ready, or even the monthly ones. Weekly and fortnightly memes I frequently participate in are:
- Wicked Wednesday (weekly)
- Monochromerotic (weekly)
- Tell Me About… Dominance and submission (fortnightly)
- 4 Thoughts (fortnightly)
- Musically Ranting (fortnightly)
- Tie me up Tuesday (fortnightly – currently on hiatus)
Except for Monochromerotic, these memes all have prompts. You have to be on prompt for all of them, except for Wicked Wednesday and Tie me up Tuesday. You can link absolutely anything to Wicked Wednesday, as long as you have the badge on it. For Tie me up Tuesday, you can link any of your rope work, even when you don’t follow the prompt.
This post, however, is about those memes that can be forgotten because they are not frequently brought to your attention, or you just don’t know about them yet.
Those you might not know about (yet)
Erotic Journal Challenge
2021 is the third year of Brigit Delaney’s Erotic Journal Challenge. This monthly meme is exactly what the name says: a challenge to journal your personal erotic thoughts, feelings, opinions and experiences, and how you journal them, is up to you. Think of poems, lists, bullet points, or ‘simply’ writing a blog post. Anything goes.
The Erotic Journal Challenge works with a monthly prompt, which is posted on the site on the first day of the month, and you can link your post from the first to the last day of the month.
February is the fifth month of The Barefoot Sub’s Mindful Moments, a place where you can share those silver linings that pulled you through in those times of darkness. Whether you share an image, a poem, writing, product reviews – you are welcome to link anything that makes you feel good.
Barefoot works with a monthly prompt, but any positive posts are welcome. You can link your post throughout the month.
On Friday MrsK’s meme, MMM Mondays, will open its sixth week already. This weekly meme doesn’t work with a prompt, but you can link anything that makes you or others go mmm. The linkup opens on Friday at 6PM MST and closes on Tuesday at 6PM MST which gives you four days to link your post.
The ‘hidden’ memes
All of the above are not really hidden memes, except when you don’t know of their existence. Hidden memes – to me – are those that don’t work with prompts. They are there for you to link whenever you have written a post for it. Also, you can link as many times as you want.
The Penis Project
Kilted Wookie is not actively blogging anymore, but he still runs The Penis Project. This is a resource meme where you can continuously link your posts about penises. You don’t have to have a penis yourself, or even like penises, to link up.
The Menopause Diaries
Are you in (peri-) menopause or living with someone who is? Then this resource meme, The Menopause Diaries, is for you. Some who are in menopause have physical problems, other mental, and some both. Share your experiences, and link to this meme, as many times as you want.
The Oral Sex Project
The name of this meme, The Oral Sex Project, already says what it’s about. Whether you are into fellatio, cunnilingus or both, we want to hear from you. Your post can be about an intimate oral sex experience, or share your technique with the world.
Other Tell Me About memes
I have already mentioned ‘Tell Me About… Dominance and Submission’ above, as well as Monochromerotic. However, there’s more to the Tell Me About Site than only this. The following subjects are part of it:
- Sexual Health: Here you can share all posts related to sexual health.
- D.I.Y.: For this you can link posts where you talk about your kinky/sexy D.I.Y. projects, or pervertables.
- Podcast: If you want to be on HisLordship’s podcast, you can get in contact with him. Or, you can listen to the podcasts of those who have already been interviewed.
Participate in memes
I know there are more memes out there, but these are the ones I support. If you haven’t participated in memes yet, please do! It brings your blog to the attention of others, and helps to build and support a community. If you are unsure how to participate in memes, please read this post on Blogable for more information.
Last, but not least, to keep track of all the memes, please keep an eye on the Blogable Meme Calendar.
Come on, join in!
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