Are you being served?

Are you being served? – Provide a service to someone without being asked. I can’t believe…

No Consent: Helena (2)

This is the rework of a self-published auto-biographical story (2008), rewritten for this blog. Names of…

Minimalist Christmas Dress Up

Christmas Dress Up – Find a way to bring a little bit of Christmas into your…

LELO Sila – Sonic Clitoral Massager

When I was asked whether I would be willing to test the LELO Sila, I wanted…

Longing for control, peace and quiet

Back in 2015 I wrote a post called ‘I want‘ and on re-reading it now, five…

Presenting as present

Present Yourself – Either in photo or to someone else, today is about being a present…

Love, submission and our commitment

Back in 2011, shortly after we had made our commitment to be in a D/s relationship,…

Melting Moments… wax play from the past

Melting Moments – Today is all about wax play. Create a festive design or just have…

Foreplay and afterplay, how and when

I think something I have always taken for granted is what we do before and after…

8 Maids a’ Milking aka nipple play

8 Maids a’ Milking – Either intense Nipple play or Cock play for 8 minutes. The…

No Consent: Helena (1)

This is the rework of a self-published auto-biographical story (2008), rewritten for this blog. Names of…

Baby it’s Cold Outside

Baby it’s Cold Outside – Christmas is about the warm and fuzzies. Do something which you…

Six things for advent

You might have noticed that I am participating in The SWC Kinky Community Advent Calendar. I…

Edge to Orgasm

Edge to Orgasm – Edge yourself or your partner 5 times and then let go and…

No Consent: Weight problems (2)

This is the rework of a self-published auto-biographical story (2008), rewritten for this blog. Names of…

Christmas stockings, naughty or nice

Back in 2017 I put a greeting on my blog, to wish my readers and fellow…

Reindeer, harness them!

I have thought of buying a headband with reindeer antlers, tie a chest harness and then…

Lumps & Bumps

I looked at this image, and the first thing I thought was ‘look at all those…

Not a cane, but candy canes!

So, I am sure when the list for this months Kinky Community Advent Calendar was created,…

History repeats, the good and the bad

They say history repeats itself, in that happenings of the past, seem to happen again in…

Get the tinsel out!

It’s December… the month of Christmas trees, snow, balls and tinsel… and a month of celebrations,…

No Consent: Weight problems (1)

This is the rework of a self-published auto-biographical story (2008), rewritten for this blog. Names of…

Aftercare… how do we do it?

The first thing I do nowadays when I write about any BDSM-related topic, is to see…

No Consent: Kim (2)

This is the rework of a self-published auto-biographical story (2008), rewritten for this blog. Names of…