Love, submission and our commitment

Back in 2011, shortly after we had made our commitment to be in a D/s relationship,…

Melting Moments… wax play from the past

Melting Moments – Today is all about wax play. Create a festive design or just have…

Foreplay and afterplay, how and when

I think something I have always taken for granted is what we do before and after…

8 Maids a’ Milking aka nipple play

8 Maids a’ Milking – Either intense Nipple play or Cock play for 8 minutes. The…

No Consent: Helena (1)

This is the rework of a self-published auto-biographical story (2008), rewritten for this blog. Names of…

Baby it’s Cold Outside

Baby it’s Cold Outside – Christmas is about the warm and fuzzies. Do something which you…

Six things for advent

You might have noticed that I am participating in The SWC Kinky Community Advent Calendar. I…

Edge to Orgasm

Edge to Orgasm – Edge yourself or your partner 5 times and then let go and…

No Consent: Weight problems (2)

This is the rework of a self-published auto-biographical story (2008), rewritten for this blog. Names of…

Christmas stockings, naughty or nice

Back in 2017 I put a greeting on my blog, to wish my readers and fellow…

Reindeer, harness them!

I have thought of buying a headband with reindeer antlers, tie a chest harness and then…

Lumps & Bumps

I looked at this image, and the first thing I thought was ‘look at all those…

Not a cane, but candy canes!

So, I am sure when the list for this months Kinky Community Advent Calendar was created,…

History repeats, the good and the bad

They say history repeats itself, in that happenings of the past, seem to happen again in…

Get the tinsel out!

It’s December… the month of Christmas trees, snow, balls and tinsel… and a month of celebrations,…

No Consent: Weight problems (1)

This is the rework of a self-published auto-biographical story (2008), rewritten for this blog. Names of…

Aftercare… how do we do it?

The first thing I do nowadays when I write about any BDSM-related topic, is to see…

No Consent: Kim (2)

This is the rework of a self-published auto-biographical story (2008), rewritten for this blog. Names of…

Legs as best friends

A girl’s legs are her best friends… but even the best of friends must part. ~…

F*ck 2020, but I’m thankful too

F*ck 2020. Just fuck 2020. There, I said it. I’m upset as I write this. Upset.…

No Consent: Kim (1)

This is the rework of a self-published auto-biographical story (2008), rewritten for this blog. Names of…

No Consent: Relaxation and realization

This is the rework of a self-published auto-biographical story (2008), rewritten for this blog. Names of…

A ‘slap and tickle’ tale

This is the first time I have heard of the term ‘slap and tickle’ and I…

Place value upon my being, not my body

My body is not yours to critique and discuss. My body is not yours for consumption.…

Trust as default

My default is trust. Scratch that. My default was trust. It’s actually quite sad that due…

No Consent: The magazine

This is the rework of a self-published auto-biographical story (2008), rewritten for this blog. Names of…

No Consent: Sylvia (3)

This is the rework of a self-published auto-biographical story (2008), rewritten for this blog. Names of…

Spanking, and other impact play

Impact play is a term encompassing many different kinds of practices where one person is struck…

Netscape Navigator

Just a couple of days more than four years ago, I shared this image for the…

Lest we forget!

God of our fathers, known of old,Lord of our far-flung battle line,Beneath whose awful hand we…