Are you being served? – Provide a service to someone without being asked. I can’t believe…
Month: December 2020
Minimalist Christmas Dress Up
Christmas Dress Up – Find a way to bring a little bit of Christmas into your…
LELO Sila – Sonic Clitoral Massager
When I was asked whether I would be willing to test the LELO Sila, I wanted…
Longing for control, peace and quiet
Back in 2015 I wrote a post called ‘I want‘ and on re-reading it now, five…
Presenting as present
Present Yourself – Either in photo or to someone else, today is about being a present…
Love, submission and our commitment
Back in 2011, shortly after we had made our commitment to be in a D/s relationship,…
Melting Moments… wax play from the past
Melting Moments – Today is all about wax play. Create a festive design or just have…
Foreplay and afterplay, how and when
I think something I have always taken for granted is what we do before and after…
8 Maids a’ Milking aka nipple play
8 Maids a’ Milking – Either intense Nipple play or Cock play for 8 minutes. The…
Baby it’s Cold Outside
Baby it’s Cold Outside – Christmas is about the warm and fuzzies. Do something which you…
Six things for advent
You might have noticed that I am participating in The SWC Kinky Community Advent Calendar. I…
Christmas stockings, naughty or nice
Back in 2017 I put a greeting on my blog, to wish my readers and fellow…
Reindeer, harness them!
I have thought of buying a headband with reindeer antlers, tie a chest harness and then…
Not a cane, but candy canes!
So, I am sure when the list for this months Kinky Community Advent Calendar was created,…
History repeats, the good and the bad
They say history repeats itself, in that happenings of the past, seem to happen again in…
Get the tinsel out!
It’s December… the month of Christmas trees, snow, balls and tinsel… and a month of celebrations,…