#SoSS #115: The Wicked Wednesday Edition

I have been running Wicked Wednesday for more than 7,5 years, and many weeks I have sat watching the links come in, and hoped to reach 50 links. Obviously not in the start, but by the time Wicked Wednesday was three or four years old, I started throwing out hints that I really wanted to have 50 links for at least one week. Only ONE week. The highest we came was 42, and I was already so happy with that. Don’t get me wrong. I am happy for ANY number of links per week, as I appreciate each and every one, but I so wanted to see 50 on there.

Then prompt 400 came up, and I started telling everyone that I want at least 50 links, just like I did so many times before. Then, on Monday the first posts were linked, and on Tuesday more followed, and suddenly, the links STREAMED in. I couldn’t believe my eyes on Wednesday when we reached 50, and the links kept on coming. Then on Thursday morning when I woke up, there was 74, and after a terribly busy day at work, I discovered the link tool had closed at a grand total of 78 links! This is more than I could ever have imagined, and as I looked at my screen, a huge smile on my face, I once again felt the utter love for this community stream through my veins. Thank you to all of you who have shown your love, and also to those who wanted to, but couldn’t because life took over. I love you all!

Sexy writing

Eye has painted an incredibly sexy image and scene in her post Do Not Disturb. Once you start reading, and seeing the images in your mind’s eye, you don’t want to stop until you reach the end.

And speaking of reading with my breath held from beginning to end, I did the same when I read Cara Thereon’s story Slide. This is incredibly hot!

This might not be a sexy piece, but definitely an important post to share here: Privacy by Julie. She echoes some of the things I have put in my own post about privacy, and like Molly commented on my post: It’s funny isn’t it how we are so open and yet so private all at the same time. There are more posts to read about privacy over at Food for Thought, and enough time still for you to add your own thoughts to this.

Hot images

There are two photo memes I check every week to look for sexy images to share here: Sinful Sunday and Lingerie Is For Everyone.


Prompts are great to inspire you to write a new post, and you can also combine two prompts (or three) if you want.

These are the ones currently running:

Meme Prompt Date(s) to link
Masturbation Monday Week 283 (PurpleSole) 31 January to 4 February 2020
Wicked Wednesday Prompt #401: I am because we are 1 to 6 February 2020
Food for Thought #134 – Privacy
#135 – Pride & Feeling Proud
27 January to 2 February 2020
4 to 9 February 2020
Sinful Sunday One Word 2 February 2020
Beyond Fetchat Impact Play 29 January to 3 February 2020
Kink of the week Cupping 1 to 15 February 2020
Tell Me About… #26: Objectification 19 January to 1 February 2020
Erotic Journal Challenge Sensuality/Sexuality
Curious (Lucky)
1 to 29 February 2020
1 to 31 March 2020
Sex Blogger for Mental Health Week 55: Listening to Your Inner Voice
Week 55: Self-control
26 January to 2 February 2020
3 to 9 February 2020
Write Big Sexy Words February’s Big Sexy Words 1 to 31 February 2020
Life Matters Foods that Heal 28 January to 3 February 2020
Elust #127 Elust submissions 1 to 8 February 2020

More memes — also those without prompts — can be found here. And, did you know that it’s perfectly okay to combine memes? Just make sure you have the buttons of those you link to in your post!

Wicked Wednesday

Every week someone else in the community does the top 3 roundup for Wicked Wednesday. Sometimes it’s me, but mostly it’s someone else. I love to engage others to do it, because I want Wicked Wednesday to be for everyone.

Are you interested in doing the roundup (again)? Just get in contact with me!

Prompt 400 for Wicked Wednesday was ‘400’ for which 78 posts were linked. The top 10 was done by Submissy and myself, and we chose:

Smut Marathon

The writers are still busy on the first assignment of the Smut Marathon 2020, and some of them have already sent their entries. On Wednesday at noon their stories have to be in my inbox, and then next week Sunday, on 8 February, the first voting round for this year’s marathon starts. I also already have two, possible three sponsors, which I will keep to myself for a bit longer, before they are announced on the site!

Tips & tricks

A post that hit me right in the heart is The Smutlancer’s How to Handle the Mistakes You WILL Make as a Smutlancer. I know I have fucked up, and I know now my apology wasn’t good enough, as it was more an excuse than an apology, and that’s not good. Then I went on and fucked up again, and I know I have done other things mentioned in this post and that wasn’t good either, so I want to say the following: “I made a mistake and I hurt you and made you feel erased and that was thoughtless and harmful and I acknowledge that.”

This day in past years

Sharing posts from the first day of February in the past years of my blog:

2011: The G-spot (3/3)
Oh dear, this is still from the days when I wrote about myself in the third person narrative. I am sharing information about the G-spot.

2012: Orgasmic echo
A short piece of erotic fiction about being fucked in the mountains.

2013: Bar Entertainment (4/4)
We went to a restaurant which had a very nice bar, and that was the inspiration for this erotic fantasy.

2014: Red hot start to the #febphotofest
Sharing an image with a lot of red for my very first February Photo Fest.

2015: Abstraction
The second year I participated in February Photo Fest and this time the image is more abstract. My theme was: polaroids.

2016: Toy Box: Rope
The third year of February Photo Fest and this year my theme was loosely based on the items in our toy box.

2017: A Month of Celebration
Yet another year of February Photo Fest, and the same image as 2015 features here, but then in color. This year my theme was to look back on previous years.

2018: A Love Of Self
My fifth year of February Photo Fest, and this year I embarked on a self-photography journey, which to today I am still exploring and enjoying.

2019: Explorations
This year for February Photo Fest I had no theme and ended up sharing images that were actually already on my site in previous years.

© Rebel’s Notes

One thought on “#SoSS #115: The Wicked Wednesday Edition

  1. I have learned a lot this past week.
    We both came through so sort of shit storm.
    From Kayla’s post, I learned that I had no idea I was apologizing in wrong way. And this allows me my one & only “excuse” because I wasn’t aware I was apologizing in the wrong way. It’s the next time I fuck up and apologize wrong that it’s shame on me. Do not be hard on yourself. You said you were sorry the first time the best way you knew how at the time. It is now up to the person to accept it or not. You can not force it on a person who will not accept your apology. I’ve learned to say it once and then walk away. Those that are your friends or who want to still be a part of your life will forgive you because they love you.

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