Two posts in the images section share two photos each, which made me add the ‘two’ to the title. Then I realized that I am only two posts away from posting my 100th #SoSS post. For 100 weeks (probably hundred and TWO weeks, as I always skip the Eroticon weekend), I have posted a #SoSS every Saturday. Promoting the posts of others, giving you a list of the upcoming memes and sharing some random thoughts from my mind. There was a time when I thought to change my #SoSS to a bi-weekly thing, but I just couldn’t. It just didn’t feel right.
Yesterday I posted that I am planning to take a step back, that I am going to be looking into combining posts for more than one meme, and (shocking!) I might even skip some memes. I need to give myself a break, because I have been pushing myself far too hard. What I am thinking is to have at least two of the seven days where I don’t post anything. See, there’s the two again. I have no idea if I will manage to take a step back, and I don’t want to make this taking-a-step-back-thing into something stressful either. I just want to be easier on myself. If I have nothing to post, I have nothing to post.
As a side note: there is something I am nervous about. On Monday I am starting to share the story about what happened in my life 25 years ago. It’s not a nice story. There will be lots of sexy bits in it, but there’s also a content warning on the story. It’s not pretty, but I want to share it. You have been warned. Over here we have a saying that, if I translate it literally, says ‘a warned person counts for two’.
Of course I just had to share that, because…. TWO!
When I saw the title of Girl on the Net’s post, I give up/Give me a load of your cum it made me smile, and when I read her post, I smiled even more. I believe it was because of a post of her that I stopped using the word ‘cum’, and I guess it’s because of her that I am now considering to use it again!
There is a real deep craving and longing in Kurvy Kinkster’s post Want, Need, Crave. Her words touch you deep, and I think all of those who have been in long distance relationships or currently are will understand this intense longing.
Something I have always felt strong about are the rules we have in our D/s relationship, but when they don’t mean a thing if he doesn’t take them as serious as I do. That is why Brigit Delaney’s post Journal: (a rule that isn’t enforced isn’t a rule) totally resonated with me.
- Metamorphosis: Fat, Fit and In Between by Violet Fawkes — A post with two stunning images, and beautiful, thoughtful words.
- Ring: My First Time Drawing With Fineliners by Purple’s Gem — Another post with two images and oh my lord this one is just so damn hot!
- Getting my sparkle back by Kisungura — A stunning image and beautiful positive words!
- Maintenance by Raven and Annabel Lee — A lovely and very intimate image which I found revealed so much the longer I looked at it.
Prompts are great to inspire you to write a new post, and you can also combine two prompts (or three) if you want.
These are the ones currently running:
|Meme||Prompt||Date(s) to link|
|Masturbation Monday||Week 266 (Purple’s Gem)||4 to 8 October 2019|
|Wicked Wednesday||Prompt #384: Camera||5 to 10 October 2019|
|Food for Thought||#117 – Kissing||1 to 7 October 2019|
|Friday Flash||No. 69 — Prompt to follow||Dates to follow|
|Sinful Sunday||Doors/Doorways||6 October 2019|
|Kink of the week||Making your own BDSM Kit||1 to 16 October 2019|
|Tell Me About…||#18: Anal||29 September to 12 October 2019|
|Erotic Journal Challenge||Fear, Insecurity, Anxiety and Self-Doubt||1 to 31 October 2019|
|Sex Blogger for Mental Health||Week 38: Social Media & Mental Health||29 September to 6 October 2019|
|Elust #123||Elust submissions||1 to 8 October 2019|
Prompt 383 for Wicked Wednesday was ‘Kink’ for which 29 posts were linked. The top 3 was done by Cara Thereon and she chose:
More memes — also those without prompts — can be found here. And, did you know that it’s perfectly okay to combine memes? Just make sure you have the buttons of those you link to in your post!
Tips & tricks
There’s a meme that has returned to the sex blogging community this past week: Toy for Tuesday hosted by Nymphomaniac Ness. This is a photo meme for photos of your toys. No genitals or nudity allowed in the photos. Yes, a bit of skin is acceptable, as long as it’s not pornographic. Ness tells you more about it on her site.
LSB — Little Switch Bitch — is spoiling us this week with 5 Tips For Giving A Great Blowjob From Him And Her but since here are tips from him AND her, it actually means 10 tips! Enjoy!
This day in past years
Sharing posts from the fifth of October in the past years of my blog:
Oh how conflicted I was back then about following my dreams, and things happened at my work too. This was only six months before my burnout.
2012: Chocolate Treat (3/3)
Part 3 of an erotic story about a special treatment at a beauty farm, part fiction, part fact.
2014: Sticky Fingers
Oh what a mess we made with the syrup that night…
2016: Reflection: First Date with The Talker
In this post I don’t only talk about the sexy, but also about an embarrassing moment during our first date with The Talker.
2018: #Storyin12 (September 2018)
Thirty super short ‘stories’ for the Twitter meme.
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