Relationships… there are so many kinds of relationships out there, and where we have words to label them, I sometimes wonder whether two relationships with the same label are actually the same. Yes, on the surface they might look the same, but I think each relationship is unique because of the individuals who are in them. We need the labels to tell people what we are, but not who we are. One couple’s D/s relationship will not be the same as the next, the same way no two poly relationships or any kinds of relationships for that matter, will be the same. Each relationship is unique.
When relationships end, it’s sad. Last night I had a dream with a recurring theme: Master T has decided he doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me anymore, but he still wants to be in my life, and fuck me whenever he wants. Without doubt I can say that he’s definitely not planning to leave me, but I think this is a fear I have deep down. My post about my past relationships might have been the trigger for this dream, which normally occur when I am doubting myself, but it might also be the past week at work that caused that.
In the last section of this post I share an old post where I pondered the question of how much of a slut I was. After my first marriage ended, I never had a slut period, but I definitely had one after my second ended, and that was with the approval of Master T, who I already knew by then. I guess some people will call me a slut if they knew all the things I have done in my life, and there were times when I had very negative thoughts about it, but I have come to accept that it is who I am, and I am a proud slut because of it. One thing I also know, is that Master T loves his slut too… so that dream is just that: a dream.
Enough of that… and onto the sexy words and images of my fellow bloggers.
A post that had me nodding my head all through it is Submissy’s Being the submissive in our Relationship, as almost every word is exactly me, exactly our relationship, and her last two lines could have been mine.
I try not to promote the same people two weeks in a row, but I just had to put Charlie Powell’s story Clowning around here as it literally made me snort with laughter, and then I couldn’t stop giggling!
One of the Wicked Wednesday posts that caught my attention this week was written by Lillith, My Most Important Relationship. She talks about something we all should remember.
A post that made me laugh is Hot Discord by Cat. The total encounter is so damn hot, the way he devours her and gives her exactly what she wants, and then the twist in the end. Brilliant!
- Something Wicked by Kisungura — This Halloween image is absolutely brilliant, and so sexy!
- Clover Play by Raven and Annabel — This image reminded me of my love-hate relationship with clover clamps, and the words made me excited for Annabel.
- Cooling off by Just a Random Scot — I love the peek we get here, seeing him in the shower without actually seeing him.
- Modest Work-outs by Modesty Ablaze — An action shot, and a damn hot one too!
- White Wedding by PurpeSole — this image of PurplesGem is so damn hot. The setting, the way she’s dressed, everything!
Prompts are great to inspire you to write a new post, and you can also combine two prompts (or three) if you want.
These are the ones currently running:
|Meme||Prompt||Date(s) to link|
|Masturbation Monday||Week 269 (Violet Fawkes)||25 to 29 October 2019|
|Wicked Wednesday||Prompt #387: Out of character||26 to 30 October 2019|
|Food for Thought||#120 – The Road Not Taken||22 to 27 October 2019|
|Friday Flash||No. 71 — Corset||23 to 30 October 2019|
|Sinful Sunday||Quote me a Halloween||3 November 2019|
|Kink of the week||Witches and Wizards||16 to 31 October 2019|
|Tell Me About…||#19: Scenes||13 to 26 October 2019|
|Erotic Journal Challenge||Fear, Insecurity, Anxiety and Self-Doubt||1 to 31 October 2019|
|Sex Blogger for Mental Health||Week 41: Open||20 to 27 October 2019|
|Elust #124||Elust submissions||1 to 8 November 2019|
More memes — also those without prompts — can be found here. And, did you know that it’s perfectly okay to combine memes? Just make sure you have the buttons of those you link to in your post!
Every week someone else in the community does the top 3 roundup for Wicked Wednesday. Sometimes it’s me, but mostly it’s someone else. I love to engage others to do it, because I want Wicked Wednesday to be for everyone. Are you interested in doing the roundup (again)? Just get in contact with me!
Prompt 386 for Wicked Wednesday was ‘Relationship’ for which 31 posts were linked. The top 3 was done by Brigit Delaney and she chose:
- Lessons on Love and Sex From Two Years in a Polyamorous Triad by MxNillin
- No Such Thing As Too Much Love by Violet Fawkes
- Relationships are Hard by Victoria Blisse
Tomorrow we will finally know who the finalists of the Smut Marathon are. Only 8 writers will go through to the finals. Yesterday the voting round ended, and tomorrow the results will be announced on the website. Watch this space!
One of this years sponsors of the Smut Marathon 2019, you might recall, is Sheets of San Francisco. Little Switch Bitch (LSB) has interviewed Mark from Sheets of San Francisco, and if you want to know more about the business and one of the people behind it, then you should read the interview.
This day in past years
Sharing posts from the twenty-sixth of October in the past years of my blog:
2011: No trauma
I have been sexually abused as a child, but I don’t have a trauma because of it. This post explains it much better.
2012: Be careful what you wish for?
Sometimes wishes come true, but not in the way you have anticipated.
Sometimes shadows in an image are just what makes the image.
A post where I announce the new home for three of the memes I run.
2016: How Slutty Am/Was I?
I think the title says exactly what this post is about.
A Dutch story, but there’s also an English version (and it’s dark!).
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