Solo & Kink #SoSS #97

Traveling, leaving logic and reason
Traveling, to the arms of unconsciousness
Traveling, leaving logic and reason
Traveling, to the arms of unconsciousness
Lyrics from Bedtime Story by Madonna

As I looked through the posts I am sharing to come up with a title for this week’s #SoSS post, and I settled on the above, my mind wandered to doing kinky things when you are alone. Believe me, once you start thinking about it, there are quite a number of kinky things you can do when you are ‘solo’. I’m thinking clamps and plugs and edging… no, don’t get me started, because then this post will be much longer than it’s supposed to be.

I am solo traveling again this weekend. Back in April I traveled to London for the first time, and I did the same at the end of June. Today — now! — I am walking the streets of London. I am always nervous before I travel, and had a lump in my throat (stress) all of Friday. Once I am in the bus I can relax, and am not responsible for anything anymore. All I have to do is to listen what is said, and do what they want me to do: get off the bus, get on the bus, be here at this time or that time… it’s wonderful and relaxing. Tiring too, but oh so very relaxing. Where I love to be with Master T, these trips are just not for him, and if he would go with me, I would be in caring mode all the time. I could’ve chosen to stay home with him, but he pushed me to go on these trips, as he knows how much it means to me.

There are definitely benefits to do some things solo!

Which now has my mind traveling back to kink again…

Sexy writing

Violet Grey’s post Too close to home is in no way a sexy post, but it touched me in such a way that I just had to share it. Yes, I am pro-choice too, but that doesn’t mean I am pro-‘everything’, just like Violet shares in her post.

Where I am totally not into piss play, this week I have read two stories that deals with this, and both those stories were hot and sex. The first one is by Kate Lessons, called A Story about Huw – One. and the second, inspired by the first, is Far Beyond the Yellow Sea by Floss.

This is not a sexy post, but definitely one I want to share here, as this needs to be said, and each of us fits in with at least one, but possibly more of the categories Sweetgirl has mentioned in her post Don’t tell me. Watch those around you closely, because they might just need your help and not be able to ask for it.

I don’t think I have ever promoted anything from the Loving BDSM site here and that should immediately be rectified. For those in a BDSM relationship, or interested in BDSM, there is invaluable information on the site, such as their post BDSM Basics: 5 Tips About Negotiation in BDSM.

Hot images

There are three photo memes I check every week to look for sexy images to share here: Sinful Sunday, Boobday and the newest, Lingerie Is For Everyone.


Prompts are great to inspire you to write a new post, and you can also combine two prompts (or three) if you want.

These are the ones currently running:

Meme Prompt Date(s) to link
Masturbation Monday Week 265 (Haiku) 27 September to 1 October 2019
Wicked Wednesday Prompt #383: Kink 28 September to 3 October 2019
Food for Thought #116 #metoo and you 24 to 29 September 2019
Friday Flash No. 68 — Make Love Great Again 24 September to 1 October 2019
Sinful Sunday Doors/Doorways 6 October 2019
Kink of the week Electrical play 16 to 30 September 2019
Tell Me About… #17: Consent 15 to 28 September 2019
Erotic Journal Challenge 13-Day Retreat + Catch-up 13 August to 30 September 2019
Sex Blogger for Mental Health Week 37: Pull Yourself Together 22 to 29 September 2019
Elust #123 Elust submissions 1 to 8 October 2019

Wicked Wednesday

Prompt 382 for Wicked Wednesday was ‘Piercings’ for which 27 posts were linked. The top 3 was done by myself and I chose:

More memes — also those without prompts — can be found here. And, did you know that it’s perfectly okay to combine memes? Just make sure you have the buttons of those you link to in your post!

Smut Marathon

We are into the semi-final round of the Smut Marathon, which means the results for the quarter finals were published last week. The further we get into the competition the more I am rooting for everyone to reach the finals, but it’s the nature of the competition that people have to be eliminated.

Since we are nearing the end of this competition, I guess it’s time to tell you that there will be a Smut Marathon 2020!

Tips & tricks

There are a couple of days left for you to share your ‘Blogger Love Language‘ hosted by MxNillin. This is the place where bloggers can… express their communication needs, wants, comforts, and boundaries to their peers and fans/readers, as well as describe how they would feel most comfortable having their work interacted with.
Some lovely posts have already been linked, so even if you don’t have a post to share, do hop over to read the posts.

Have you been wanting to buy a butt plug but you have no idea which one you should have? Or you have one, but it’s not comfortable at all, or slips out when it shouldn’t. Then this post, Plugs that Stay Put by NymphomaniacNess will help you to make a well-informed choice for your next purchase.

This day in past years

Sharing posts from the twenty-eighth of September in the past years of my blog:

2010: She’s back & full of plans
This was one of the first posts after a hiatus of months, and shortly after this I started blogging frequently and never looked back.

2011: Strange Habit
I knew I had written this story, but I had no idea what I had called it, so it’s special to find it back now. This man really had a strange habit…

2012: Chocolate Treat (2/3)
Part 2 of an erotic story about a special treatment at a beauty farm, part fiction, part fact.

2014: Purple glow
Not really a favorite image of mine, but it was the best one to show off the purple rope, which I enjoyed feeling hugging my skin.

2016: Special Friend, Sophia
When I see her name, I smile, and when I can hug her, all I want to do is stay in her arms.

2018: The Bar Lady 
An erotic story about one woman fantasizing about another woman at a bar.

© Rebel’s Notes

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