Nine times out of ten it’s a minor shift in your focus and your attitude that makes the difference.
~ Brenda Strong
I have read this quote over and over, considering each and every word, and came to the conclusion that there is so much truth in this. Sometimes all it takes to find hope again, is to shift your focus from the negative to the positive, or even see the positive in the negative. Difficult situations are exactly that: difficult… but sometimes it takes a slight shift in focus to make it feel less difficult than it is. I think that’s what keeps on pulling me through with how our relationship is at this moment. I try to focus on the things we still do together – our photography outings, our ‘dunches’, how we still joke and laugh together, how strong our love is. I have to say, since I have started doing this, missing intimacy and D/s doesn’t weigh has heavy on my shoulders anymore. Sometimes you just have to shift your focus.
That’s also what I did with the images below, and in doing so, I fulfill the prompt for this month: One Shot Two Ways.
And as a slideshow…
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