It’s complicated…

Have you ever clicked on someone’s relationship status on social media and read ‘it’s complicated’ and…

Game Change

Today… what do you love most or wish you could change about your sex life as…

Bristled Climax

Sheila is not really a submissive, but more a lover of kinky play, and she especially…

Full Frontal

I’m humble enough to know I’m not better than anybody and wise enough to know I’m…

Filthy Slut

“You’re a slut. A filthy slut.” Shame burned red on my cheeks. The palm of his…

Silly Selfies

Picture this: a 50+ woman holding her phone up in the air, trying to find a…

“Die Opsitkers”

This is one story that will appear on this blog only in Dutch, as too much…

Paradise by the Dashboard Light

Caught in her throat, her heart beat loudly to the rhythm of her fear and excitement.…

I vow to…

Vows… if you were to write wedding vows for you sex life, what would you say…

Naked Freedom

I’m sure you haven’t missed it, but if you did, our son moved out on Saturday.…

Centered Life

Feeling good about yourself and your life is very important. I’m a happy woman, happy with…

Our Kind of Power Exchange

After reading Molly’s post, A Broken Spell, and telling Master T about it the next morning,…

Movies & Me

Confession: I am terrible at remembering movies, especially their names, or the names of the actors. Sometimes…

Mirrored Pleasure

The thoughts in my mind are not gentle when I ran my eyes up and down…

We will prevail…

Mental Health and it’s impact on your sexuality, erotic well-being, and/or sexual relationships I have written…

Whip ‘n Wand

Joan booked another session with Dom, under the same conditions than before: she didn’t want to…

Love Affair

Masturbation is a meditation on self-love. So many of us are afflicted with self-loathing, bad body…

Sharp as a Knife

I have written about knife play several times before. The first time was also for Kink…

Ikea Doos

This is the Dutch version of ‘Ikea shopping‘, from back in the time when I still…

Crazy mama

When I saw this prompt, I stared at it for some time and the first thing…

Center of Attention

Her marble white body was a stark contracts against the black satin sheets. People stayed close…

Hormones and hormones

My history with hormones starts in my teens, when I started having problems with my menstruation.…

Water Games

Robin and Sheila popped into Dom’s Place again, ready to try out a new toy they…

Shifting Focus

Nine times out of ten it’s a minor shift in your focus and your attitude that…

How to get discounted access to various porn sites

Porn isn’t cheap. The good stuff isn’t, anyway. Sure, you could spend all of your time…

Key Communication

Five minutes of communication can save a year’s worth of turmoil and misunderstanding. ~ Joyce Meyer…

Humiliation: Yes, or No?

I have only briefly written about humiliation before, where I have said that humiliation play is…

Betraying Love

“Fuck you,” she screamed. “Just fuck you!” She stormed up the stairs and threw herself on…

His Body, Mind & Personality

What parts of your lover’s body do you love the most… and, if you feel comfortable……

Sizzling Session

“It sounded urgent,” Dom said when he opened the door for Celine. “You bet,” she said,…