Talking & Love #SoSS #77

Someone once told me that I talk a lot, but I don’t say the things that I really need to say. I was offended in the moment, but when I thought about it, I realized that they were right: I hide the things I should really talk about. Those of you that read all or most posts on my blog will know that I have written so many times that I want to talk to Master T about important things, about our relationship, about how he sees the future, especially our sexual and fun future. I never have the guts to just start about it, always taking into account that he might not be in the mood, that he is in pain, that it’s not the right moment, or because I feel guilty for wanting something for myself. My father made me grow up with guilt, but that’s a story for another time. Thing is, I seem to silence myself because I feel guilty for wanting something.

I am not the only one doing this. There are others too, and not all of us have the same reasons for keeping quiet — some may have the same as me (guilt), others may fear the reaction of the person they have to talk to, and yet again others might be manipulated into not talking. But you know what? We should just talk. We should not feel guilty about it. Should not fear the reaction. Should not be manipulated. We should just talk, because we deserve to speak about our needs and our wants and the things we find important in life, as life is just to short not to. And yes, I am talking as much to myself as I am talking to you.

It’s time to speak up!
(And I have been told that I can talk whenever I want, that I am allowed to, so I should do it. And I will!)

Sexy writing

I wish I could have a night like my beautiful wife, Hyacinth recently had. I read Password Level achieved and by the end I was squirming, and longing for a LONG sex session!

A post that totally intrigued me is Why I’m Okay With Consensual Non-Monogamy in Our D/s Relationship by Kayla Lords. There’s information and thoughts in this post that confirmed some things I know about myself, and things I have been wondering about regarding consensual non-monogamy.

Her photography is always stunning, but when I read Matching plugs by Missy, I realized how damn good her writing is too. This is SO hot!

This post, If it was easy by Molly Moore, touched my heart, as I know from past experiences how it feels when you start censoring yourself and come to a place where you feel you want to speak out, but you are afraid to hurt those around you.

Hot images

Let me highlight my two favorite posts from each of the three photo memes out there: Sinful Sunday, Boobday and the newest, Lingerie Is For Everyone.

Sinful Sunday

Boobday

Lingerie Is For Everyone

  • Masturbation May and Life by J. Lynn — This is such a ‘simple’ image, but when you look closer, the hand in her pants definitely says that there is nothing simple about this.
  • Find Your Own Sword by Floss — I love that Floss’ panties and her wand massager has the same color, and love the glimpse of her beautiful tattoos.

Prompts

Prompts are a great way to inspire you to write a new post, and you can also combine two prompts (or three) if you want.

These are the ones currently running:

Meme Prompt Date(s) to link
Masturbation Monday Week 245 (Purple’s Gem) 10 to 14 May 2019
Wicked Wednesday Prompt #363: Friendship 11 to 16 May 2019
Food for Thought Friday #98 – Spread A Little Love 10 to 16 May 2019
Friday Flash #51 — Movie Poster 5 to 12 May 2019
Sinful Sunday Prompt to follow 2 June 2019
Kink of the week Outdoor Sex 1 – 16 May 2019
Tell Me About… #7: Spanking 28 April to 11 May 2019
Erotic Journal Challenge Prompt #17: Never Again 4 to 12 May 2019
Sex Blogger for Mental Health Week 17 – Gaslighting & Ghosting 5 to 12 May 2019
Elust #119 Elust submissions 1 to 8 June 2019

Wicked Wednesday

Prompt 362 for Wicked Wednesday was ‘Unmentionable’ for which 32 posts were linked. The top 3 was done by E.L. Byrne and she chose:

More memes — also those without prompts — can be found here. And, did you know that it’s perfectly okay to combine memes? Just make sure you have the buttons of those you link to in your post!

Smut Marathon

In the past week two things happened on the Smut Marathon site. Firstly the results of the fourth round of the marathon has been put online, and secondly, we have finally announced the first sponsor for this year’s marathon. The rest of the sponsors are to follow soon, one by one!

Tips & tricks

Kayla Lords wrote What I Learned Writing 2 Million Words as a Freelancer on The Smutlancer website, and when you read it, you can learn a lot from her.

Last but not least

To get back to the intro of this post, this week once again I was reminded of how much I love Master T. In one of our frequent one-liner emails that I start every morning and he ends every afternoon, I mentioned that I am a bit frustrated, and he said that everything will be okay. I told him that this phrase ‘everything will be okay’ seems to close the door for me to talk about important things, and he assured me that the door wasn’t closed. I believe every word he has said, not because he has written them to me, but because of how friendly and loving he was towards me since them. The door indeed is open. Now all I have to do is TALK!

© Rebel’s Notes
#SoSS

2 thoughts on “Talking & Love #SoSS #77

  1. Thank you for the mention my friend. You have been so amazing to me listening and understanding. My post is me dipping my toe in really and I now know there will be more

    Molly

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