Waiting & Busy #SoSS #73

an image of an hourglass on a wooden floorSometimes life is a waiting game. I am waiting for this thing to happen in two weeks time — a thing I know is going to be brilliant and which I will only reveal while it’s happening or afterwards. But, I am also waiting for other things. Yesterday I blogged about the photo studio I want once my son has moved out, but this week we learned it will take some time longer for that to actually happen. There’s some red tape that has to be dealt with first. I don’t mind, and until then I will just have to use our bedroom for my photos, as I have done before. But, I am also waiting for other thing, I have sent Master T a message about things I need (to change) and I am still waiting for an answer. I hope to have an answer sometime this month, and then we can move forward, I hope…

And so the waiting game continues, but I believe that patience definitely pays off in the end, even though the road to the goal can sometimes seem so damn long!

Sexy writing

Last week I mentioned that I have signed up for the Loving BDSM 30 Days of D/s challenge (no, I haven’t started writing yet, but I will!), and this week I want to point you to a lady who is doing this challenge: Brigit Delaney.

I like a story with a good twist, and that’s what Charlie Powell has given me in her stories, Delphine and Emma.

I love Cara Thereon’s writing, and I loved it even more when she accidentally writes a novel, which she seems to be doing now. He Could Not Resist is part 3 of said novel, and I am already looking forward to much more of this story!

It’s no secret that I am a fan of Ella Scandal’s writing, and just when I think she can’t surprise me with her stories anymore, she does. This time she did it with H is for… Hysteria… this is…. just. So. Damn. Good.

As sex bloggers, there are only a handful of us that can be totally open and out about what we do, but most of us have to hide some aspect of us, which makes it seem like we are living a double life. Kilted Wookie wrote about it in his post The Great Compartmentaliser, and I think we all will recognize some aspects in his post.

Hot images

As from this week I am doing this section differently. There are three brilliant photo memes out there, which are Sinful Sunday, Boobday and the newest, Lingerie Is For Everyone. What I want to do from now on is to choose two pictures from each meme to promote here. So here goes…

Sinful Sunday

  • Green Goddess by Annie Savoy — I just love the angel of this shot, and the flowers in the foreground, even though I only noticed the flowers later.
  • Googly by Kisungura — the playfulness in these images is just so damn brilliant. Kisungura is really talented in presenting unique images!


  • #BoobDay – diaphanous by eye — this image is SO brilliant, maybe my favorite of all the images I mention here today!
  • #BoobDay – The Ocean and Truth — a similar image to that of eye, but also a totally different one. The sheer black and the slight show of a nipple is so sexy!

Lingerie Is For Everyone


Prompts are a great way to inspire you to write a new post, and you can also combine two prompts (or three) if you want.

These are the ones currently running:

Meme Prompt Date(s) to link
Masturbation Monday Week 241 (Molly Moore) 12 to 16 April 2019
Wicked Wednesday Prompt #359: Doppelgänger 13 to 18 April 2019
Food for Thought Friday #94: Out Of Sight, Out Of Mind? 12 to 18 April 2019
Friday Flash No. 48: Places I’d Like To… 9 to 15 April
#FantasySmutFriday Week 22: Prompt to follow Dates to follow
Sinful Sunday Prompt to follow 5 May 2019
Kink of the week Mirrors 1 – 16 April 2019
Tell Me About… #5: Safewords 31 March to 13 April 2019
Erotic Journal Challenge Prrompt #13: Wishes 6 to 14 April 2019
Sex Blogger for Mental Health Week 13: The Power of Consent 8 to 14 April 2019
Elust #118 Elust submissions September 1 to 8 May 2019

Wicked Wednesday

Prompt 358 for Wicked Wednesday was ‘Mental Health’ for which 35 posts were linked. The top 3 was done by SassyCat and she chose:

More memes — also those without prompts — can be found here. And, did you know that it’s perfectly okay to combine memes? Just make sure you have the buttons of those you link to in your post!

Smut Marathon

Two things happened on the Smut Marathon website in the past week. First of all the results for the third round of the marathon was announced, and there was also a change in the jury, as Brigit Delaney replaced Jaime Mortimer.

Tips & tricks

If you want to get more readers to your blog, you need to work on building an audience. But how do you do that? Read the Smutlancer tips on Building an Audience: Think About Who You’re Trying to Reach.

Last but not least

Last weekend we had a couple of brilliant appointments, and one hospital visit. The appointments were for drinks with sexy friends the one night, dinner the next and a lunch with another friend. Our Friday evening, Saturday and Sunday was filled, especially since we still had to do grocery shopping too. This weekend is the same, without the Friday night. Today we have an appointment where we have to drive, but we also need to get groceries and go to the pharmacy and I need to have my fringe cut. Tomorrow we have to go to the birthday party of a beautiful five-year-old (our youngest grandson), and in between all of this I also want to get some sleep and do some writing. Where to find the time? I have no idea!

But, opposed to this business, Easter weekend is approaching, and guess what? We have absolutely nothing planned that weekend. Nothing! I can’t tell you how much I am looking forward to our three day weekend with no obligations at all. And then, only 3 days of work and then I am going to do something I have never done before… but as said in the beginning, I am not revealing any of that just yet!

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© Rebel’s Notes

8 thoughts on “Waiting & Busy #SoSS #73

  1. I’m also going to be doing the 30 days of D/s challenge. I’ve joined but am not ready to start posting. Great round up as ever.

    The photography studio sounds exciting and well worth waiting for.

  2. I loved that googly image! Great pic(k)!

    And I’m so happy to read that you’ve communicated your needs with your husband. I hope it sparks a conversation where you both feel heard and that you can find some solutions together. I will send positive thoughts your way. ?

    1. Thank you, Feve. I am positive about this, and it might take some time, but I believe Master T and I will find a way to move things forward, despite the current and ongoing difficulties…

  3. Waiting is so hard. I’ve been doing a bit of that related to work and it’s driving me a little crazy.

    Thank you for the shout. The longer stories sneak up on my at times so I’m glad it’s appreciated

  4. Wow, thank you Rebel. I’m in bed, poking around on blogs while husband sleeps in, and after being stunned by the writerly and photographic talent in this community in this week’s soss – well wow. Thank you for including me and for your kind words. xo Lexy

  5. What an appropriate theme. I am waiting for a good oppurtunity to talk to my wife about sexy things I like to do and today I’m busy with work-things, work that should have been done by now, but I kept postponing because other priorities.
    I think I should stop waiting for a good opportunity, the longer I postpone the longer I have to wait…sexy things should have priority ;-).

    1. I agree, sexy things should have priority, but I also know that sometimes it’s just not possible to do those things when you want to do them. Sometimes, ‘circumstances’ should be ideal… good luck wit the talk with your wife 🙂

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