Eroticon is still very much in my mind , so forgive me if I share quite a number of links this week that are connected to Eroticon in some or other way. I have written about my own experience at the conference this year, and as I have feared, I have left out some people, such as the brilliant SilverDom, who we have finally met! We were going to meet him in 2017, but then we didn’t go to Eroticon and when we were there in 2018 it snowed so much that he couldn’t come. But this year, finally, we met, and I loved that he and Master T had a connection and I just know next year they will have some deep talks. But, Eroticon was also about witnessing (and craving) pain and about sharing the fun when so many bared their boobs. These things can only happen at Eroticon, a place where people are loving and accepting and inclusive.
I can’t wait to go back next year.
But until then, I have planned to make a couple of one-day trips to London… more about that when the time is right.
For now, it’s on to this week’s #SoSS!
Last week I referenced The Other Livvy’s post which shared details of the Friday evening, when Bibulous One had invited some of his friends to watch while Mistress Elita ‘broke him’. Some more posts have been written about the evening, and I want to share them here. I have considered writing my own post, but there is nothing else I could say that all the other lovely people haven’t already said, other than that it is an experience I will never forget. Read more about that evening here:
- In Public – Elita’s Experience
- A public beating by Bibulous One
- Complicit by @19syllables
- Capturing the pain by Missy
- Can I get a witness? by Eye
- Public – A Masochist’s View by Honey
A hot, hot piece of writing is The Sinners by Hannah Lockhardt. I just love the setting of this story!
If this is only the beginning, then I am very much looking forward to the part that follows The better option by Cara Thereon!
A brilliant piece of writing, one that will capture your attention from beginning to end and will definitely move you is Catch the Catcher by May More. Go read it!
This week I want to share only one thing here: Boobday pics! Back at Eroticon Hyacinth came up with the idea to ask people who are interested to join in for a group boobday pic. Back in 2016 seven of us joined in, and this year at Eroticon almost 30 joined in. I really hope that next year even more will come bare their boobs for this body positive meme!
These posts have already been posted, showing different images that were taken by Focused and Filthy that afternoon, and I am sure more will follow next week too!
- Friday, March 29th, is Boobday! by Hyacinth Jones
- Eroticon Boobday by Focused and Filthy
- Being positive about my body by Julie
Prompts are a great way to inspire you to write a new post, and you can also combine two prompts (or three) if you want.
These are the ones currently running:
|Meme||Prompt||Date(s) to link|
|Masturbation Monday||Week 239 (Mx Nillin)||29 March to 2 April 2019|
|Wicked Wednesday||Prompt #357: Tantrum||30 March to 4 April 2019|
|Food for Thought Friday||#92: Where Do You Go To?||2p March to 4 April 2019|
|Friday Flash||No. 46: Bursting||24 to 30 March|
|#FantasySmutFriday||Week 20: You caught your partner…||29 March to 5 April 2019|
|Sinful Sunday||Letter G||7 April 2019|
|Kink of the week||Figging||16 to 31 March 2019|
|Tell Me About…||#4: Bondage||17 to 30 March 2019|
|Erotic Journal Challenge||Catch up on prompts #1 to #11||23 to 30 March 2019|
|Sex Blogger for Mental Health||Week 11: Toxic Masculinity||24 to 31 March 2019|
|Elust #117||Elust submissions September||1 to 8 April 2019|
Prompt 356 for Wicked Wednesday was ‘Mentor’ for which 24 posts were linked. The top 3 was done by Submissy and she chose:
- Mentor by SwirlingFire
- Should We Go Back to D/s? Can We? And How? by Brigit Delaney
- Catch the Catcher by May More
More memes — also those without prompts — can be found here. And, did you know that it’s perfectly okay to combine memes? Just make sure you have the buttons of those you link to in your post!
On Wednesday 27 March the stories for the third round of the Smut Marathon 2019 had to be in my inbox. They were, although not all of them. Tomorrow the third voting round will open. Are you ready to read and vote again?
Speaking of the marathon, I have a couple of brilliant sponsors on board, and soon will start announcing those sponsors one by one. So you definitely need to keep your eye on the website!
Tips & tricks
This week I want to share something from the Smut Marathon website, as this has proved to be an invaluable tool for me: name generators. So many times I sat staring at the screen, wondering just what the name of my main character should be, and then I accidentally discovered name generators. I am sharing two in this post: Name Your Characters.
Last but not least
I have noticed how my blog seem to have shifted from writing mostly erotica to writing mostly post about my sexuality, our not-so-existing D/s and my mental health. Sometimes I have this voice in my head telling me: “You have to start writing erotica again!” The moment I hear those words, for a couple of seconds I feel the panic, but then quickly push it aside. No. I shouldn’t panic about it, because if I do, and if I force myself to write erotic fiction again, I know I will hate it. I also know that if I just relax about it, and write what I do now, the stories will eventually come back to me and I will get back to writing those erotic stories, for which this blog has been started more than 9 years ago. So, until then, you will just have to read about my everyday life, my thoughts, my fears and my happy moments.
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