Music… there are times I love music, and there are times I absolutely hate it. No, hate is too strong a word. There are times where I will rather not hear music. Those are the times when I feel mentally low, and knowing that music tends to evoke emotions in me, I prefer to avoid them. But sometimes I unexpectedly hear a song and then it’s too late, the tears come. Other times I just switch off the radio, refusing the song to draw my tears from me. Thankfully not all songs do this. There’s lots of music I can listen to that has no special memories, but still, when I am not in the mood to listen to music, I don’t.
Why I am talking to you about music? I guess you will just have to scroll down to the end of this post. But, before you do, please check the links I am sharing with you this week!
I think we all should be thankful for the work that has been done by Myles Jackman and Pandora Blake, as written about by Jaime Mortimer in his post, UK law removes anti-bdsm rules, recognises “full and free consent”.
Sometimes when I sit and think about my D/s relationship with Master T, and how we are each other’s equals, even though in some areas we are not, because that’s the way we want it, the way we like it, I cannot find the words to describe it. Then I read Molly’s post, The balance of power, and there were the words…
I love it when Cousin Pons crafts one of his stories in his own unique style, like he has done telling us about Big Bobby Rosario. I actually wish the story was longer!
As almost everyone knows, this is the month of February Photofest and it’s lovely to see so many people participating in it. Please click the link to see all participants and please show your love by leaving comments on their posts, or at least clicking the like button, as I know it is a lot!
Of course I have been ‘perving’ the images too, and have made a summary of my favorites of the last week:
- Kicking Off February Photo Fest 2019 by Krystal Minx
- On the Sofa by Kilted Wookie
- Two by Name Unmentionable
- Matching by Molly Moore
- When We Are Asleep… by Floss
- Matching Panties by Kayla Lords
- Playing with light by Ink
- My most naked reflection by Brigit Delaney
- Tell Me A Story by Purple’s Gem
- Brushstrokes by Kisungura
- Still Life with Lexy by Lexy
- Curves by Nikki
- #FebPhotoFest2019- Day 7 by Eye
- Gator Bait by Cat
- Rope Reprise by Violet
- Naked by May More
- Day 7 – Throwback Thursday by Little Switch Bitch
- Grid by The Other Livvy
- Flick by Focused and Filthy
Prompts are a great way to inspire you to write a new post, and you can also combine two prompts (or three) if you want.
These are the ones currently running:
|Meme||Prompt||Date(s) to link|
|Masturbation Monday||Week 232 (Victoria Blisse)||8 to 12 February 2019|
|Wicked Wednesday||Prompt #350: Erotic Photo||9 to 14 February 2019|
|Food for Thought Friday||#85: Getting Off||8 to 14 February 2019|
|Friday Flash||No. 40: Pizza||4 to 10 February 2019|
|#FantasySmutFriday||Week 15: “Sexually teased and orgasm control”||8 to 15 February|
|Sinful Sunday||Prompt to follow||3 March 2019|
|Kink of the week||Mutual Masturbation||1 to 15 February 2019|
|Tell Me About…||#1: Submission||2 to 16 February 2019|
|Erotic Journal Challenge||Prompt #6: Style||9 to 15 February 2019|
|Sex Blogger for Mental Health||Week 4: Children & Mental Health||3 to 10 Feb 2019|
|Elust #116||Elust submissions September||1 to 8 March 2019|
Prompt 349 for Wicked Wednesday was ‘Social Media Inspiration’ for which 28 posts were linked. The top 3 was done by Hannah and she chose:
- Checking in to Social Media by Julie
- The balance of power by Molly Moore
- The Week in Review: Week 5- 2019 by E.L. Byrne
More memes — also those without prompts — can be found here. And, did you know that it’s perfectly okay to combine memes? Just make sure you have the buttons of those you link to in your post!
Tomorrow! Tomorrow the first voting round for the Smut Marathon 2019 opens! Please, please, please, make time to read all the entries and vote for the three you like best. You have until Friday 15 February to do so! Every vote is appreciated, not only by me, but also by the writers!
Tips & tricks
I have a friend who told me many times that she makes a planning for 1, 3 and 5 years ahead, and since this seemed like something I would want to do to keep me focused. When I asked her how she did it, she gave some kind of explanation, but I never really understood. I am a visual kind of girl, and that’s why I am crazily in love with Violet’s post, Setting Blogging Goals and Sticking to Them. I’m sure I’m not the only one who will find this a very handful tip!
Kayla Lords of The Smutlancer always has some brilliant tips, not only on how to make money with your blog, but also just general bloogy things, such as Blog views, social media, lack of inspiration, and more.
Last but not least
For my February Photofest 2019 I am taking a trip down memory lane…
As I paged through all the folders of images (which were always much less organized than they are now… and I still have a lot of work to do on them), I came across images we had taken for a Sinful Sunday competition that was all about music. Master T was SO creative with his images, using me as his canvas, and I decided to share one more image from that series of September 2012.
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