I love my sleep.
Once I am asleep, I don’t like to be woken up. I want to sleep and sleep and sleep and sleep. I can be a real bitch if someone wakes me up in the middle of the night, or sometimes I am even bitchy when my alarm clock wakes me in the morning and someone speaks to me before I have had my shower.
Okay, so I think I have made it clear that sleepy sex is not my thing, but…
… yes, there’s always a but.
If the mood is right, I can be into sleepy sex. Sometimes in the evenings when we go to bed and I am really tired, I might not want sex, but sometimes Master T says that he’s going to finger me to sleep. If I am really tired I will tell him, but mostly that doesn’t work. He will tell me to close my eyes and spread my legs, and to enjoy. And seriously, he will start fingering me and I will slowly drift to that place between wake and sleep. An orgasm is not the goal; only pleasure. Sometimes Master T will stop and tell me to go to sleep; other times I will ask permission for an orgasm, and then everything will turn into full-on sex.
It hasn’t ever happen before (as far as I can remember now) but I think if we would both be more or less awake at the same time during the night and we are both in the mood, something similar — the fingering — or lazy sex might happen.
Another time for sleepy or drowsy sex of course is in the morning, when it’s not time yet to get up, you’re not fully awake and after sex you can actually turn over and sleep some more. Yes, this has happened some times in my life, but I think I can count the times on my two hands. Like I said, I don’t like to be woken in the morning, and my sleep is more important than sex. Seriously.
But… (yes, there we go again), never say never. Sex like this might happen in a hotel, as there I can mostly let go of my fixed routines, and enjoy things I might otherwise not enjoy. It can also happen at home, but then the circumstances have to be more than ideal. And what exactly the ideal circumstances are? I have no idea…
While I was ‘writing’ this post in my mind, I asked Master T what would happen if he woke me from my sleep in the middle of the night to have sex. His answer?
“You will spread your legs when I tell you to.”
I looked at him in surprise, because he knows how much I love my sleep. So I asked him again, this time ‘reminding’ him about this love of mine.
“You will spread your legs when I tell you to. Sleep or no sleep.”
Well, so there’s that. And you know what, even though I know this is not even likely to happen, if it does, I think I might even enjoy it.
No matter how much I love my sleep, I love sex too, and especially sex with Master T. I think in the end it all boils down to the stars aligning for me to actually enjoy sleepy sex.
© Rebel’s Notes