The Language of Lust

dirty talk

Dirty Talk – How do you feel about dirty talk? Are you any good at it? Does it turn you on? Do you have any good stories about it?

I have written about dirty talk before, about how Master T’s words work for me, and how I can only talk dirty when he draws it from me. It has happened in the past year that in the throes of passion and very close to my orgasm, I have told him that I am his whore and his slut without him even prompting me to do so. I have no idea where that came from, but it felt natural and it was out my mouth before I could over-think it.

Dirty talk between Master T and me works. It turns me on. It makes sex even hotter than it already is, and it makes my orgasms stronger.

But, the questions above, and the fact that our sex life is not as active anymore as it has been up to two years ago, have made me think about sex with other people, and how I would feel about when they talk dirty to me. When I say ‘other people’, here I am thinking about people we have in our life, and who I have already had sex with or where there is a possibility of having sex with them. As I run through them one by one, there is only one I can think of who had talked dirty to me, and that was The Talker. That was hot, as the click between us was so good, but unfortunately in the end it wasn’t meant to be.

What if any of the others talk dirty to me?

I don’t know. As I sit here, thinking about it, I don’t know if it would work for me. Maybe if I get to know them better, see them frequently and build some kind of relationship, the dirty talk will feel and be more natural. Otherwise I don’t think it’s going to work.

Writing that, and thinking about how I have digital contact with many of these people (and others), my mind went to ‘dirty digital talk’. In the past years I have done it… twice. Once with Mister Silent and once with Mister Cub. That’s it. Normally when things go to any kind of dirty talk, I stop the conversation, as it makes me feel uncomfortable. I can’t do it. It doesn’t turn me on. I don’t know how to react. It doesn’t work for me. Mostly not, that is.

I guess, looking back at the questions above, I have to say that dirty talk only works for me in some situations. It worked in those two online chats because my mood was good and the conversation naturally went from ‘normal’ to ‘dirty’. It works for me when Master T says dirty things to me, or ask me questions and I eventually say dirty things too.

Other than that, it just doesn’t work for me.

© Rebel’s Notes

2 thoughts on “The Language of Lust

  1. I think I could get with “digital dirty talk” (or sexting) much more easily that dirty talk in person. Talking dirty just usually embarrasses the shit out of me, because it feels so contrived…like I’m acting.

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