Whenever I look at porn and the ladies (or gents) are very vocal, I tend to get distracted so much that the porn clip loses its ‘magic’. Therefore I frequently watch porn without any sound, as it’s what’s happening on the screen that interest me. I don’t need to hear them.
I, however, am not as quiet during sexy. There was a time when I made no sound at all; that I was ashamed of showing my pleasure during sex. It was until someone told me that it would be nice to hear me during sex, to hear if I like what’s happening. I wasn’t instantly vocal after that, but slowly got used to hearing my own moans, and from there on, I was never quiet again!
How do you communicate pleasure? Are you a moaner, a groaner, a screamer or a sigher?
I think I do all of the above, except the screaming. I have never screamed during sex, but I might have been quite loud (almost screaming) when I was spanked. During sex I moan and I groan and I sigh and I do it all over and over again. When something feels nice, when I am enjoying what is being done to me, I like to show it.
It has even came to the point where our children know exactly when we are having sex. Our daughter sleeps in the room directly next to ours and despite a huge wardrobe against the wall between our rooms, she still hears us. Our son sleeps on the attic above us and he can hear us too. One morning, some years ago, when I came out of our bedroom and he happened to be on the stairs, he asked me: “Did you enjoy it last night, mom?”
At first I had no idea what he meant, until he told me that I was moaning so loud that he knew exactly what was happening. After that, and knowing our daughter can hear us, I am a bit more aware of my own loudness and try to keep it down a bit, but not too much. I have told both kids that they should just accept that their parents are still sexually active.
If you are with a partner, how do they like you to express pleasure? How do you like them to express theirs?
My husband has never told me how he likes it, but I am sure that if he didn’t like my moaning and groaning he would long have told me to keep it down. It did happen a couple of times that he told me to be a bit quieter when I was especially loud.
Master T never moans. He’s mostly very quiet, but I can see from the way his muscles tighten when he’s getting closer to an orgasm. He always groans and sighs when he climaxes, and when I am on top of him, watching his face, I love when he locks eyes with me while his cock twitches inside. The low groan accompanying that is sexy as hell!
Aside from vocalisations expressing pleasure, what other sounds during sex add to the overall experience?
I am not much of a talker during sex, but Master T knows how much I like it when he calls me his slut, his whore, his dirty girl. Sometimes he asks me what I am, and I know that those are the answers I should give. I’m your slut. I’m your whore.
Another sound that I really love during sex is when he fingers my cunt and it squelches, making it obvious how wet I am. This sometimes starts the dirty talking for Master T’s side, and I love it!