For this year’s A-Z Challenge I decided to focus on things that I have come across during our 5 years of active kink, and share my experiences and things I have learned, my opinion or things I am curious about. In each post I am using an image that has been used on my blog before, with a link to the original post.
Continued from… V is for Vibrators & More
Yesterday I wrote about the vampire implements we own and how I like to see the tiny red dots the spikes of those implements leave on my body. We also have a Wartenburg wheel with one wheel, and one with seven wheels. Up to now those wheels have not broken through my skin and I can honestly tell you that I am very curious to know how that feels. I think it will be a totally different sensation than the vampire implements, as the latter breaks the skin on impact, which happens quickly. The speed with which the Wartenburg wheel moves is controlled by the one holding it, which in my mind means it might hurt a lot more when the wheels break the skin. Still, I’m curious…
This is something we have not done nearly enough. I love the feeling of the hot wax falling in my body, burning my skin and then cooling off before it can become unbearable. I love when Master T concentrates on my nipples when he drips the wax on me. It’s wonderful to play with wax, but there’s only one downside to it. The mess! We have to do it in the bedroom and we have a special sheet for it, but still pieces of wax always end up on the carpet and in the bed and god knows where else. This is the main reason why we don’t play with wax as much as we both would like to.
Do I really have to tell you that I like a good whipping, or has this series already convinced you that I did? When I’m whipped, I moan because it hurts and sometimes it hurts so much that I wish it would stop. When it stops, I long for it to start again.
Weight control is something that happens in some D/s relationships, but not in ours. Sometimes, just sometimes, I really wish Master T would be very strict with me and control everything I put in my mouth, or set me goals for weight loss. But, I know it would not work, because I need to find the strength inside myself to lose weight, and when it’s difficult (like it frequently is when a woman is in menopause), I should accept that my body is what it is.
In the kink world, when you refer to water sports, you refer to anything that has to do with urine. For both Master T and me this is an absolute no-go. We are not interested in ever trying it and in fact, we haven’t ever even been in the bathroom together when the other had to urinate. To both of us those are our private moments and we expect each other’s privacy. Do we judge people who engage in this kink? Never. This is just a case of ‘your kink is not my kink but that’s okay’. I guess the reason why I included water sports in my A-Z series is exactly for this reason: to say that when someone has a kink that is not your kink, not to judge them but respect that they have made their own choices, just like you have made yours. It’s off-limits to me, but doesn’t mean it has to be to you too. Respect is important!
To be continued… X is for All Things X
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