I is for Impact Play & More

For this year’s A-Z Challenge I decided to focus on things that I have come across during our 5 years of active kink, and share my experiences and things I have learned, my opinion or things I am curious about. In each post I am using an image that has been used on my blog before, with a link to the original post.

Continued from… H is for Humiliation & More

Impact Play

Impact play? Yes! We don’t get to this nearly enough, because of kids at home and I tell you, there’s always at least one kid at home! Therefore, for impact play, we have to wait until we are in a hotel, or we have to postpone this for at least five years and then do it here at home. Of course the last is ridiculous, which means we normally engage in impact play when we are in a hotel. When we do impact play, almost anything goes from being spanked by his hand, to using a flogger, a paddle, a whip or a cane. My favorite impact implement definitely is the vampire paddle or vampire gloves. They deliver an amazing feeling and I love the sight of the blood afterwards. A cane definitely is my least favorite implement for impact play.

Ice Play

Original post: Temperature Play
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We haven’t played with ice that much, but when we do it’s really enjoyable. A word of warning: if you engage in ice play, never, but never use the ice directly from the freezer. You will be sorry!

What we normally do is to put the ice cubes in a bowl and allow it to start melting before we use it for the first time. This way I know for sure that the ice won’t get stuck to my sensitive bits. Even though I know this is not recommended, I love the feeling of the cold ice deep in my pussy, and even better when someone fucks me while I have the ice inside me. It’s quite an interesting and exciting feeling when you have a warm cock inside you and cold water running out of you.

Another way to do ice play is to put your glass or steel dildos in the freezer and then play with it, but be careful with using these directly from the freezer too!


This is something I have no experience with, but I am curious about it, in combination with kidnapping. Roleplaying is not something I am into, but a girl can dream, right? And here I mean dreaming about being kidnapped and interrogated, and of course punished because I give the wrong answers…

To be continued… J is for Just do it!

© Rebel’s Notes


6 thoughts on “I is for Impact Play & More

  1. Ooh, I will have to try the ice inside me while being fucked at the same time. Why have I never thought of that?! Temperature play is a lovely thing. Ice over hot wax is delicious. I especially enjoy ice or cold dildos during our very hot summers.


  2. I suggested ice play to my ex numerous times, but he typically refused to do it, claiming it was dangerous. I clearly was the one more into BDSM in that relationship, since he seemed to only like the very mild, vanilla bits, and preferred to fantasize about harder-core stuff than actually make it happen.

  3. I can identify with the problems of having kids around and wanting to play! We have to “emigrate” to a hotel room for some intense (and long) play… But there are hotelrooms and hotelrooms, right. Once we unfortunate to have hotelroom walls that were paper board thick. Since that time we spend more money on a decent hotel room, LOL.

    Not into role-playing either… I’m not sorry to say. And thank you for the warning on ice-play. Your method with using ice in a bowl is a good suggestion we use ourselves often as well.

    Wonderful post,


  4. Oh Wow! Even though I have never tried some of the kinks you write about, and I may never try some of your pleasures, your blog is really turning me on. Just reading makes me hard, the thought of fucking my girl with an ice cube inside her makes me harder still. Nice.

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