E is for Exhibitionism & More

For this year’s A-Z Challenge I decided to focus on things that I have come across during our 5 years of active kink, and share my experiences and things I have learned, my opinion or things I am curious about. In each post I am using an image that has been used on my blog before, with a link to the original post.

Continued from… D is for D/s & More


You only have to click on different links on this blog to discover that I am an exhibitionist. I love showing images of myself and feel no shame at all that others look at my most intimate parts. In fact, it excites me, but sometimes it doesn’t even evoke any kind of emotion in me as it simply is what it is: I am an exhibitionist.

It started at quite a young age, roundabout the time I was 10 or 11 years old. I used to dress up and play ‘king and queen’ and even though I played alone and knew that no one could see me, I loved ‘showing’ myself by pulling my panties to the side and exposing my pussy to the world out there. By the time I was 14 I still pulled my panties to the side, but this I did for the oldest son of our neighbours, who was five years older than I was. He wanted to see me and I gladly complied. Was that because I have exhibitionism in my genes or because I like following orders? My guess? A bit of both.


Ooooh edging. This is another thing I have a love-hate relationship with. I love the feeling of being in the brink of an orgasm and then being denied to go over the edge. But I only love it for so long and then it gets boring and I want to have my climax. However, I cannot say just when it will get boring (or irritating even) as there is no specific number to that.

Sometimes I torture myself. I am not allowed to have an orgasm without asking for permission first. But, sometimes I get out of the shower and I use the Womanizer Pro to stimulate my clitoris. Then I stop on the edge of my orgasm, not wanting to disobey Master T. Sometimes, when I stop, I wonder if I haven’t already had the orgasm, as the feeling is so incredibly intense.

You know, even though I have this love-hate relationship with edging, I don’t mind getting an edging task every now and then…

Erotic Dancing

There was a time when Master T wanted me to dance for him and for others, in a striptease kind of way, but thankfully I don’t have to do that anymore. I don’t like to have all the attention directed at me and twisting and twirling my body, even only in front of Master T, makes me feel ridiculous and I am constantly asking myself if I am ‘good enough’. This is one thing that I have learned through experience and that Master T and I have discussed: erotic dancing is not for me.


I mentioned this word in the previous paragraph already. Remember I said that there should be consent and that things should be discussed? Discussing things beforehand and deciding on what you want to try or not, you come to a list of things you want to do. When you try something for the first time, talk about the experience afterwards. Talk about your feelings. Not only the sub should talk about feelings, but the dominant too. Did it work for you or not? Like the erotic dancing, we have talked about experiences too and on some things we decided that we would not do it again. Other things we have done many times again and gained more experience, and through the experience we have found what works for us and what not.

To be continued… F is for Fisting & More

© Rebel’s Notes

Wicked Wednesday


11 thoughts on “E is for Exhibitionism & More

  1. I am a complete exhibitionist as well, and not into erotic dancing in the least! How I feel about edging is still to be determined.

  2. I’m with you all the way on exhibitionism, the whole reason I begun my blog was to take part in the Scavenger hunt. Hmmm, why haven’t I posted any since its been back?! Edging too is something I enjoy, although I’m not sure enjoy is the right word as it drives me insane!

  3. Edging can be a very erotic experience, though like you said, it can get boring under certain circumstances. Once upon a time, I suggested orgasm denial to my ex, and he said he could naturally go a long time without orgasming, no matter what the circumstances. As I soon found out, he never orgasms from any sort of partnersex, and takes at least an hour to get himself off.

  4. Edging is an interesting one. I think it could be fun for a while, teasing, but only for so long, then it would just be annoying!

  5. While I read your posts I sometimes wonder if Master T reads them as well? It often seems like there are messages hidden within the content, hints from a sub to her Dom.

    Edging – though I’ve never heard it termed as such – is my absolute ultimate favorite way to write. I tease my characters mercilessly and often. Turns out in person I’m way to impatient and get easily frustrated, so it’s not a practice in my own sexual behavior, but the idea is incredibly erotic to me!

    As always, thank you for bringing us deeper into your life!

    1. You are so right! There indeed are hidden messages in my content. Master T reads my blog, every word of it, and my blog is the only sex blog he reads. He always says he has no interest in read about the experiences of others. I guess he knows that the blog is another way for me to communicate with him 😉

  6. I find this series erotic, in a sort of detached way. Some of the things you have revealed about yourself really arouse me, lucky I can stay detached and don’t need to look for a towel… maybe.

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