A is for Anal & More

For this year’s A-Z Challenge I decided to focus on things that I have come across during our 5 years of active kink, and share my experiences and things I have learned, my opinion or things I am curious about. In each post I am using an image that has been used on my blog before, with a link to the original post.


If you have been following this blog for a while, or have read posts in my extensive archives, you will definitely have noticed that I am a huge fan of anal sex. Ever since the first time I experienced it and had the most amazing orgasm, I have been hooked – no pun intended. I love all kinds of anal stimulation, whether penetration with fingers, being fucked, wearing butt plugs or even having my butthole licked. Even so, I am always afraid of ‘making a mess’ and for some time used to clean myself out with enemas, until one day that almost went embarrassingly wrong and I stopped doing it.

I might get some negative comments for this next part, but I prefer to be honest. You see, no matter how much I like to be anally stimulated, I have never paid anyone else the favor. No wait, I am lying. I did it once, with my former husband. It took me weeks, seriously weeks, to build up the courage to finally anally stimulate him. I can tell you, it took me only seconds to realize what I was feeling when I tried to push a finger inside him… dried poo! I have never tried it again and thankfully, with Master T, I don’t have to. He’s not into receiving at all and this suits me just fine.


In the beginning of our D/s relationship we were into assignments, which meant that Master T decided on tasks and I had to perform them. I had some interesting tasks, but at a stage, they stopped. Master T wants the assignments to be original and challenging. Something like going to the shops without panties is just too easy, even though it is exciting. I would love to have assignments again, but first Master T will have to get his creative juices flowing. However, I really won’t mind simple tasks, or even to repeat tasks I had before.


Original post: Merchandise
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We have only touched the surface of this, which was more than enough to make me realize that I don’t want to be deprived of oxygen. Wikipedia says: Erotic asphyxiation or breath control play is the intentional restriction of oxygen to the brain for the purposes of sexual arousal.
A hand on my throat is okay, but having my breath cut off is something that would send me into a total panic!


Now this is something that totally intrigues me, but I’m afraid it might fuck with my mind too much if no one wants to buy me. Or even if they want to buy me. In my first novel I have written an auction scene, which was inspired by my own fantasy about being auctioned.

To be continued… B is for Bondage & More

© Rebel’s Notes


14 thoughts on “A is for Anal & More

  1. My ex suddenly lost his interest in anal after our second time doing it. He was convinced the same issue would come up if we tried it again, and wouldn’t believe me when I said sometimes trace amounts of fecal matter reveal themselves. He was freaking out when that condom seemed to be stuck on him, and then freaked out even more when I walked toward him carrying it so he could dispose of it. He had a lot of issues, to say the least. He also claimed to be interested on being on the receiving end, but again lost interest after I’d already bought a harness and very soft strap-on meant for anal virgins.

    1. Sorry to hear about this. And yes, you are right, trace amounts can reveal themselves. It’s something we all hope never happens, but if it does, going about it in an ‘adult’ way is the best thing to do.

  2. You know, there are times I think we must be the same person on opposite sides of the planet. I am totally with you on all your A points, as with most of the things you write.
    Looking forward to the challenge this year. I’m off to a rocky start but hopefully it will get better as I go. 🙂


  3. I have found so much inspiration with just four little A words that you chose to elaborate on! I am very glad I found your blog through the A to Z Challenge and I can’t wait to read more from you – I will be following eagerly!

    Interestingly enough, I wrote about anal today too, though my story is very much for the man’s enjoyment. I’ve never been a fan myself, but I do love poke when the situation is appropriate, if you know what I mean.

    I am really hooked on your auction idea…I think there is a story brewing, but it will have to wait until next month as it won’t quite fit into my A to Z theme (The Hedonist Hotel)!

    1. Brilliant that you found me through the A-Z Challenge. I will look for your blog too 🙂

  4. I love how honest you are and I will definitely be following along with you in the challenge. I totally agree about the breath play – I think it would be more panic than arousal I would be feeling!

  5. I would be worried about the auction for the same reason. Breath play scares the hell out of me because it takes so long to get deprived and it’s agonizing, but blood chokes are instant and I’m unconscious – that’s kind of hot, but only on the rare occasions.

    What a great theme!

  6. About Anal. Glad you found a partner that shares your kink, and even respects your hangups. It is truly wonderful and you’ve got a master out of millions…. But you do realize and treasure that, I think… Smile.

    About assignments. I’m like Master T. Assignments shouldn’t be boring. Difficult to be original all the time, but worth a try now and then. We do assignments sometimes, like the Quattuordecim challenge we did last year.
    But it must be, like the word says, a challenge for the both of you.

    About Asphyxiation. It scares the hell out of me. Suppose I make mistake and my beloved is dead beneath me…. No cherie… A hand on the throat is more than enough!

    Auctioned. Reminds me of the Marketplace books from Laura Antoniou I read recently. Wonderful fantasy. What would the world be without fantasy??

    Great post,
    Look forward to the rest,


    1. I guess I then just have to wait until Master T comes up with a brilliant idea 😉
      And yes, I realize that I have a wonderful Master.

  7. My oh my, you write a lot, dear Marie. Looking forward to read the rest of your A to Z challenge blogs.


    1. Thanks, Lex, thankfully I had a couple of days off from work which helped a great deal to write a lot 🙂

  8. Fantastic post, interesting and informative.
    Will stick with these rest of the alphabet posts and look forward to them eagerly

  9. Anal is something I do enjoy however currently my body is going through some changes and anal is out of the question. I do enjoy rimming the men who were my partners (in the past) they were very clean, never freaked out when licking them, etc.
    I enjoy being choked but not to the extreme of the possibility of death. The thought of breath control play makes me think of those celebrity horror stories. I’ll pass.
    Auctioned? That’s a new one.
    Good luck with the rest of the #atozchallenge ?

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