"Hidden" memes

When I took over The Fellatio Project, I realized that this might become a ‘hidden’ meme and I would have to work ‘harder’ (pun intended) to promote it. At the same time it made me think of other ‘hidden’ memes.

Memes that run weekly always get more attention from bloggers than those that are out there to link your post to whenever you have it ready. Weekly memes that I participate in (or have participated in) are:
Sinful Sunday
Toy with me Tuesday
Wicked Wednesday
Kink of the Week 

Other weekly memes that I have not (yet) participated in:
TMI Tuesday
Naked Wednesday
Boobday Friday 

But this post is not about the weekly memes. This post is about those memes that can be forgotten because they are not frequently brought to your attention:

Pussy Pride Project
The Pussy Pride Project is an idea of and hosted by Molly of Molly’s Daily Kiss. The name of the meme says it already, but this is what Molly is looking for:

Tell me about your pussy. Below are a list of possible questions you might like to consider, but they are only suggestions to help get you thinking, you don’t have to follow them to the letter, in fact I am hopeful you won’t, what I would really like to see is your own thoughts and feelings about your pussy.

What do you call it? How do you feel about it? Do you accept it as a beautiful part of you or maybe you are not so sure? What do you think about the concept of the ‘perfect vagina’? Would you ever have surgery on it, or maybe you already have, why? Has anyone ever complimented you on your pussy? Do you shave it, or do you like it au natural? Describe it to me?

If you are brave enough please do post a picture of your pussy but if not, then describing it and how you feel about it is just as good. This is not restricted to female participants either, if you are a male blogger then maybe you might have a partner you could feature, and if not then write a piece about what you think is beautiful about pussies.

Scavenger Hunt
Dee of Curvaceous Dee hosts The Scavenger Hunt, which is a list to inspire more and better dares for people to flash and show body parts in public places, or at least a place where there is a possibility of being caught by others. You need to have enough of the location in the photo for it to be identifiable and in the photo you do not have to be entirely naked. Just a flash of a nipple or your ‘nether’ bits is enough.

You can do a post entirely for The Scavenger Hunt or combine it with Sinful Sunday or Wicked Wednesday. Or maybe Boobday Friday.

A Darker Flame (unfortunately this meme has been discontinued)
This meme is brand new as it only started in January 2014. It is hosted by Stranded in Toronto and it’s a meme for erotica writers. As Stranded said:

So much erotica is written with the stereotypical connection to romance. The mission of this meme is to invite writers to take their erotica in a further direction. Each month we will be offered a completely non-erotic prompt with other genre possibilities. The mission, should you choose to accept it, is to spin an erotic tale based upon the concepts found here.

Come on, it’s fun to be challenged and let’s get this monthly meme known to others.

Fellatio Project
I have recently taken over The Fellatio Project from Kinky Mia, since she wanted to cut back on erotic blogging. What I am looking for in The Fellatio Project is to hear about all the sucking you have done, about encounters you have had, whether good or bad. I want to hear what it does for you, to be sucking a man, how it feels in your mouth, what it does to your mind. Men, I want you to tell me how it makes you feel when you see a woman (or another man) sucking you. What do you feel? What do you think? Women, what do you prefer – to suck and swallow or to suck and have him cum all over you? Share everything you want regarding fellatio, whether personal experiences, hear-say experiences of others or whether you have tips for your fellow-suckers.

The Penis Project
I have only recently – and purely by accident – learned about The Penis Project which is hosted by Malflic. I think this is more a meme for men, although I have seen entries by women too. But, what is The Penis Project about?

What is one thing that plagues guys more than anything else? It is the disinformation that runs rampant about one of our favorite body part? Does size mater? What is average? What kind of condom should I use, or should I use one at all? Ask 100 guys and you will get 10 different answers and 90 silent red faces. Why are we so ashamed about what we are packing for the ladies when in private its one of our greatest toys?

Most importantly how do we communicate our concerns about these issues to our partners and lovers in a sensitive and honest way, what are ways to bring up seeming uncomfortable topics, set expectations, express likes and dislikes?

Our hope is to address these topics, help correct some of the errors of the past and common locker room misconceptions that have been passed from generation to generation. We encourage others; men and women to share their thoughts and ideas. Information is golden as much as ignorance can lead to expensive and painful learning experiences. It’s time to bring these topics out of the bedroom and talk openly. Let’s get to the bottom of the issues, from health, to play, and everything in between.

This is another monthly meme and shortly…

… e[lust] is your source for sexual intelligence and inspirations of lust from the smartest & sexiest bloggers! Whether you’re looking for hot steamy smut, thought-provoking opinions or expert information, you’re going to find it here.

The idea is to submit at least one of your posts to the e[lust] roundup between the 1st and the 7th of the month. The list is published roundabout the 15th of the month and you have to publish the list on your blog too and it must be posted on your blog permanently. Submitting your posts to the e[lust] digest definitely gets you more traffic to your blog.

101 things in 1001 days
Day Zero is the creator of the 101 things in 1001 days, but since a couple of sex bloggers have decided to draw up a list of goals, Molly created a page for us to link our different posts and pages to. Are you completing a 101 things in 1001 days list? Then please link your list to this page and when you blog about your progress, link those posts too.

Question memes
There are also some other memes that come with a set of questions and they are also quite interesting and fun to participate in:
* 30 days of kink
* 30 days of submission
* 30 days of truth (this is not really a sex related set of questions, but that doesn’t mean that you cannot answer it in a sexy way!)


So come on, if you haven’t participated in any memes yet, please do! And if you now learn about memes you have not yet participated in, I hope this posts help you decide to link a post to one of those memes! And if you know about memes I have not mentioned here, please let me know!

Memes are a wonderful way to get to know new people in the blogging world, read blogs you were not aware of before, introduce your blog to others and just get in contact with the beautiful people in the blogging world.

Join in!

© Rebel’s Notes

Wicked Wednesday

30 thoughts on “"Hidden" memes

  1. Marie, I don’t know if I saw this page already or not. I’m a little late.

    Thank you for informing us/me about the various adult memes. There are a lot, and a great variety too.

    One day maybe we will see you at TMI Tuesday blog.


    1. This is the first time I heard about Surprise Saturday. I have looked on your site and see you have a button but that no one else but yourself has participated yet? Maybe you should promote the meme so more people know about it?

  2. This is a fantastic resource! The only one I have taken part in so far is Toy with me Tuesday but I have often wondered what other adult memes are out there.

  3. Goodness – there are quite a few out there, aren’t there? Time for me to start participating some more…

    xx Dee

  4. Great post about all those lovely memes out there! I was aware of all the ones that you mentioned and have some on my “to do” list!

    ~Mia~ xx

  5. Thank you for sharing all of these. I knew about most of them and there are some amazing people and information shared on each page. A Darker Flame is one I just learned of recently and it a lot of fun. I am hoping to add a little to the scavenger hunt soon. All in good time

  6. The Pussy Pride Project is a meme I’ve considered for awhile, but I have yet to put my own pussy on the net, therefore my hesitation. Thank you for shouting out these other memes; I have a few very interesting! xxx

    1. I think you can even do a Pussy Pride post without showing your pussy, but just using words. Just go for it, and am looking forward to see what other memes you join in with 🙂 xox

  7. I love some of the memes; Molly and Malfic’s are awesome as they relate to taking pride in what you have, not shame in what you think you should have. But I love them, prompts are good as they direct people down a path, but with 100 different people following the prompt, no two are ever the same!

  8. Ha! This is like the end of my piece about Powerful Post writing and when I publish that list I will correct the bit about The Fellatio Project and I forgot about Boobday, which is a meme I love


    1. When I saw the list at the end of your Powerful Post Writing session, I knew we were ‘great minds’ and all that again, as my post for the ‘hidden’ prompt had been written about a month before Eroticon 2014. And I seem to remember you had some on your list that’s not on mine, so looking forward to see your list of memes again 🙂

      Rebel xox

  9. This is an excellent and very informative post. I agree with you that there are really great memes out there that are “hidden” from plain sight. I have peeked at a few of them. My new favorite is The Fellatio Project because it’s what I do. Love sucking a man’s cock. I think I’m gonna join in with the 30 Days of truth.
    Thanks again for sharing these “hidden” memes.

    1. You’re very welcome. I just thought I should get this out there, to inform people of all the memes.

      And I need to get started on the 30 Days of Truth too 🙂

  10. Thanks for the listing. I knew most of the memes you mention, but hadn’t known about the penis project. We’ve got a draft of a post for the Fellatio Project, just needs a little editing and perhaps another pic and it’s ready.


    1. Great to hear you are planning to do the Fellatio Project, and I hope you will be taking part in some of the other memes too. Maybe the Penis Project and the Pussy Pride Project? 🙂

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