Question: Day 28: How do you dress for kink/BDSM play? What significance does your attire have to you?
I have never specifically dressed for any kind of play. Oh, there were the occasional evening that I dressed in one of my kinky dresses, or my sexy shorts. Or that I wore stockings and high heels with some sexy lingerie. But it never specifically was for our kink/BDSM play.
Nowadays, when we play, I always wear my heels. It’s mandatory to wear them when I wear my collar, and when we play, He always puts my collar on my neck. Other than that, I do not specifically dress for our play.
The significance my collar and my heels is that my obeying my Husband makes me feel happy and content. I love the feel of the leather on my neck and I love the posture that my heels give me. I am not thin, but can even be called overweight. Hubby and I differ on this. I sometimes feel that I have to hide my body, while he loves it. When I wear my heels, my posture is better and I seem to love my body more.
Maybe I should get some special outfits for our play nights. Any suggestions?
(written on 28.08.2011)
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