Clitoral Stimulation Techniques
Stimulating the clitoris is a bit like giving someone a massage; it may feel fantastic at first, but if you don’t vary your technique the result can lead to numbness or pain, neither of which are conducive to driving your woman wild with ecstasy. When it comes to oral sex, many men believe a simple flick of the tongue will suffice – and it might, in the teasing phase. But, if you really want to rock her world, you should go above and beyond the standard clitoral stimulation techniques. The following clitoral stimulation techniques are tried and true; they’ll have your woman begging for mercy and so much more.
The clitoral hood is there to protect the clitoris and prevent over-stimulation, a sensation that can be extremely uncomfortable and sometimes painful. But that doesn’t mean a little direct teasing isn’t appreciated once in awhile. Using your best foreplay techniques, get her as turned on as you possibly can. When she starts moaning, slide between her thighs and tease her unexposed clitoris with your tongue until it’s fully erect. Gently retract the hood until the clitoris is partially exposed, and dart your tongue across it. You’ll want to repeat this move gently and quickly, varying the direction each time and pausing between each flick of the tongue. When she starts begging for more attention, release the hood and increase the degree of applied pressure until she reaches orgasm – which should be right around the corner.
Clit tip: Don’t blow directly on the clitoris – that will only dry the glans out, and nothing is more painful than having attention lavished on a non-lubricated clitoris.
I like it when He spreads my pussy lips wide open to expose my clitoris, and sometimes I do it so He has his hands free for other things 😉
If you really want to be in charge in the bedroom, try something more controlled and specific; use your tongue to deliver slow, upward strokes against the delicate underside of the glans. Get her fully turned on and then retract the hood, and gently place your tongue beneath the clitoris. Slide it upward with soft, wet strokes. When done properly, this produces an extremely pleasurable tickling sensation. If repeated slowly and steadily, it’s a guaranteed orgasm of mammoth proportions – the secret is maintaining gentle, deliberate strokes, even when she’s begging for something harder and faster.
Clit tip: The first strokes should be individual. In other words, you’ll want to momentarily break physical contact between each one. As she nears orgasm, you’ll want to alter your technique and begin sliding your tongue back to the starting point without breaking contact. This will ensure maximum clitoral stimulation.
Oral sex can be earth shattering, but manual stimulation can be just as satisfying when done correctly. The next time you’re in bed, slide behind your woman and pull her up onto her knees. Draw her back against your chest and tease her body until she’s writhing in your arms. From this position, you can use your fingers to gently massage her clitoris. There’s no need to retract the hood, just work your magic in slow, sexy circles. Try not to apply too much pressure to the clit – no squishing, unless she asks for it of course. If you want to add a little variety, try side-to-side or diagonal strokes. This is precisely how many woman stimulate themselves and their bodies will respond automatically.
Clit tip: Don’t use your tongue to lubricate your fingers; saliva only works through constant application, and you don’t want to interrupt stimulation once you’ve started. If she’s truly turned on, coat your fingers with her own lubrication; it’ll last much longer.
Nothing better than when He uses my own juices…
Multiple manual stimulation
This is a fantastic method of stimulating the clitoris, but the execution can be somewhat tricky. The best position for this is with her lying on her back, and you lying beside her. Start with the gentle massaging method we just discussed, and continue until she’s very, very wet. At that point, you’ll want to slide a finger or two inside of her. Take your time. You don’t want to inflict pain, as that would kill the mood. When she’s ready for more, place your thumb on her clitoris and start to massage it. The combination of clitoral and vaginal stimulation will double her pleasure, not to mention lead to a very unique orgasm.
Clit tip: If your fingers aren’t long enough to simulate intercourse while keeping your thumb on her clitoris, don’t worry about it. The main stimulation here should be clitoral, and it’s perfectly fine if your other fingers don’t move very much; some women actually prefer this.
Start small but finish big
The clitoris really isn’t the mystery many claim it to be; any man can make a woman orgasm with the right clitoral stimulation techniques. All you have to do is be patient, take your time and give her a chance to be properly turned on. Start with small, gentle strokes and work your way up from there. Your woman will let you know when she’s ready for all-out clitoral stimulation. Until that time, your best bet is just to let her simmer with desire – the pot will eventually boil over, we promise.
I love to take over at some stage and stimulate my own clitoris, leaving Him to stimulate me in many other ways…
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