Dare to Bare

It seems we are heading for summer, as we’ve now had a week of sunshine and temperatures well into the twenties (Celsius). However, as I sit here at my desk on Sunday, writing and looking outside at the glorious sunshine, I know that tomorrow the temperature is said to drop into the low teens. Summer ... continue reading

Let’s Talk About Sex

Of course this blog is all about sex and talking about it, but with this week’s question for Food for Thought Friday, I am focusing on one specific part of talking about sex. The question is: Are you comfortable discussing sex with your partner? Do you have the confidence to ask for what you like/want? ... continue reading

Deal-Breakers… This Turns Me Off

Last week I blogged about what I find sexy, and said that I cannot really pinpoint just what I find sexy in a person. I find someone sexy or not. It’s as simple as that. This week the question is to balance out last week’s subject: What would constitute a deal-breaker in terms of finding ... continue reading

First Sexual Act

Trigger warning: if you are a victim of (child) abuse, you might not want to read this.   What was the first overtly sexual act you performed on someone else or had performed on you? How did you feel about it afterwards?   Many of my ‘firsts’ were things that happened to me, that were ... continue reading

The Numbers Game

Do you need or expect to know how many previous sexual encounters your current sexual partner has had? Is it any of your business?   No, it’s none of my business. This is the answer I give because of the situation I am in. I’m married to Master T and we engage in sexual encounters ... continue reading