Winter Wonderland

Kinky Christmas… or not…

Every year when the Christmas time draws nearer, I start to drag my feet. I love the shorter winter days, even when they are grey with clouds or fog, but one thing I hate about Christmas are the things you have to do. It’s expected that everyone celebrate Christmas together. Now don’t get me wrong: Read More

pleasing you

Please You to Please Me

The prompt for this week’s Wicked Wednesday is: Do you do sexual things in your relationship just for your partner that you don’t like doing? Are you always the one trying to keep your friends or family happy? Are you a people-pleaser? I won’t even go into how I was a people-pleaser, doing everything to Read More

Romance

Romance & Us

I have never really thought about romance and what I find a romantic act or a romantic personality. Actually no, without really thinking about it, romance to me meant the classical love story: falling in love and living happily ever after. However, Rye’s questions got me thinking… How do you define romance? What to you Read More

NaNoWriMo 2016 participant

NaNoWriMo 2016… Almost!

  Only 19 days left and then the race against the clock starts again. It’s almost time for National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo) 2016. On the first day of November 2016, millions of people around the world start writing their novels. Some do it for the first time, some for the second and others are real Read More

Tied to a chair

Reflection: First Date with The Talker

Morning. Can I ask you about your part three post date with the talker? I read it last night. I confess I found it uncomfortable. It read like a disastrous session with you getting little pleasure. I want you to have fun and enjoy. I didn’t think being used regardless of your pleasure was your Read More