To end the series in the 30 days of kink, I would like to post a poem that is circling on the web. Unfortunately I have been unable to find the author of the poem… They told me – You are Woman … Go out and conquer the world They said – be strong … Read More

I don’t have an official title, neither has my Husband as my Dom. However, He does call me slut and whore. Whenever we are playing, I have to repeat that I am a horny slut or that I am a whore and I want to be treated as one. He would never say something like Read More

I have never specifically dressed for any kind of play. Oh, there were the occasional evening that I dressed in one of my kinky dresses, or my sexy shorts. Or that I wore stockings and high heels with some sexy lingerie. But it never specifically was for our kink/BDSM play. Nowadays, when we play, I Read More

This is something I have never thought about before. There are so many things that I am interested in, but if they have found their way into my kinky activities… well I just don’t know. Actually, thinking about it now, yes there is one non-kink interest that has definitely found its way into my kinky Read More

I know that there has been a question earlier in this series about things you do not understand regarding BDSM/link or things you are curious about. I specifically did not mention online BDSM play, since I knew this question was coming up. And yes, indeed, when I started with these series of questions, I did Read More

I am a very open person and would love to be able to be much more open about my kinks than society allows me to. I have been brought up in a very conservative way, where sex was definitely not to be discussed. In my adult life I make my own choices and sex sometimes Read More

I can answer this with one sentence: the qualities I look for in a partner are exactly those qualities my Husband has. But then again, that one sentence is not really an answer, because then you still don’t know what qualities I am looking for in a partner. I did not know either, until I Read More

Oh yes, my interest and perspective have definitely changed. How? I. Want. More. Whenever I read or see how other people live their kinky lifestyles, I feel the need in me for more. I have written blog posts about this before, about how I have my own vision clouded by reading what other people do. Read More

In alphabetical order: communication, honesty and respect and trust. In my opinion these four things are all equally important in a relationship. It does not matter whether it’s a BDSM relationship or a vanilla relationship though. Also, communication, honesty, respect and trust are inseparable from each other. They are totally intertwined. If there are no Read More

I love to read. I love books. I love a good plot. In my life I have read quite a lot of books, but very little books that where BDSM related. However, there is one of the few I have read that certainly is my favorite. Found on wikipedia: Published in French by Jean-Jacques Pauvert, Read More